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		<title>Funny Money Lessons from Fiddler on the Roof: If I Were a Rich Man</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 09:14:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Penelope Pince</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have a lot of favorite movies (maybe because I&#8217;m indecisive and can&#8217;t just pick one favorite) and Fiddler On the Roof is definitely there in my top &#8230; 50. Yes, it is old, and some of it a little silly, but it is a classic and teaches some good lessons, all the while maintaining [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a lot of favorite movies (maybe because I&#8217;m indecisive and can&#8217;t just pick one favorite) and <em>Fiddler On the Roof</em> is definitely there in my top &#8230; 50. Yes, it is old, and some of it a little silly, but it is a classic and teaches some good lessons, all the while maintaining a good balance of comedy with serious issues. We recently watched it for the first time after several years, and now that we are personal finance bloggers, we couldn&#8217;t help but appreciate the money lessons (or maybe they&#8217;re more like jokes) to be had in this movie.</p>
<p>If you have never seen Fiddler on the Roof or want to see it again, you can watch the full movie free on Hulu at: <strong>http://www.hulu.com/watch/26704/fiddler-on-the-roof</strong></p>
<h3>Funny Money Quote from Fiddler On the Roof</h3>
<blockquote><p>Tevye: Again with the rich! What&#8217;s wrong with being rich?<br />
Perchik: It&#8217;s no reason to marry. Money is the world&#8217;s curse.<br />
Tevye: May the Lord smite me with it. And may I never recover!</p></blockquote>
<h3>If I Were a Rich Man</h3>
<p>One of my favorite songs in this movie is <em>If I Were a Rich Man</em>, wherin Tevye fantasizes of the (sometimes imprudent) ways in which he would live his life and spend his money were he a wealthy man. Play the video below to watch it performed as can be done by none other than the great Topol. (You can watch the whole movie here, too, if you&#8217;d like.)</p>
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<h3 style="padding-left: 90px;"><strong>Fiddler on the Roof: If I Were a Rich Man &#8211; Lyrics</strong></h3>
<p style="padding-left: 90px;">&#8220;Dear God, you made many, many poor people.<br />
I realize, of course, that it&#8217;s no shame to be poor.<br />
But it&#8217;s no great honor either!<br />
So, what would have been so terrible if I had a small fortune?&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 90px;">If I were a rich man,<br />
Ya ha deedle deedle, bubba bubba deedle deedle dum.<br />
All day long I&#8217;d biddy biddy bum.<br />
If I were a wealthy man.<br />
I wouldn&#8217;t have to work hard.<br />
Ya ha deedle deedle, bubba bubba deedle deedle dum.<br />
If I were a biddy biddy rich,<br />
Yidle-diddle-didle-didle man.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 90px;">I&#8217;d build a big tall house with rooms by the dozen,<br />
Right in the middle of the town.<br />
A fine tin roof with real wooden floors below.<br />
There would be one long staircase just going up,<br />
And one even longer coming down,<br />
And one more leading nowhere, just for show.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 90px;">I&#8217;d fill my yard with chicks and turkeys and geese and ducks<br />
For the town to see and hear.<br />
And each loud &#8220;cheep&#8221; and &#8220;swaqwk&#8221; and &#8220;honk&#8221; and &#8220;quack&#8221;<br />
Would land like a trumpet on the ear,<br />
As if to say &#8220;Here lives a wealthy man.&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 90px;">If I were a rich man,<br />
Ya ha deedle deedle, bubba bubba deedle deedle dum.<br />
All day long I&#8217;d biddy biddy bum.<br />
If I were a wealthy man.<br />
I wouldn&#8217;t have to work hard.<br />
Ya ha deedle deedle, bubba bubba deedle deedle dum.<br />
If I were a biddy biddy rich,<br />
Yidle-diddle-didle-didle man.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 90px;">I see my wife, my Golde, looking like a rich man&#8217;s wife<br />
With a proper double-chin.<br />
Supervising meals to her heart&#8217;s delight.<br />
I see her putting on airs and strutting like a peacock.<br />
Oy, what a happy mood she&#8217;s in.<br />
Screaming at the servants, day and night.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 90px;">The most important men in town would come to fawn on me!<br />
They would ask me to advise them,<br />
Like a Solomon the Wise.<br />
&#8220;If you please, Reb Tevye&#8230;&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Pardon me, Reb Tevye&#8230;&#8221;<br />
Posing problems that would cross a rabbi&#8217;s eyes!<br />
And it won&#8217;t make one bit of difference if i answer right or wrong.<br />
When you&#8217;re rich, they think you really know!</p>
<p style="padding-left: 90px;">If I were rich, I&#8217;d have the time that I lack<br />
To sit in the synagogue and pray.<br />
And maybe have a seat by the Eastern wall.<br />
And I&#8217;d discuss the holy books with the learned men, several hours every day.<br />
That would be the sweetest thing of all.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 90px;">If I were a rich man,<br />
Ya ha deedle deedle, bubba bubba deedle deedle dum.<br />
All day long I&#8217;d biddy biddy bum.<br />
If I were a wealthy man.<br />
I wouldn&#8217;t have to work hard.<br />
Ya ha deedle deedle, bubba bubba deedle deedle dum.<br />
If I were a biddy biddy rich,<br />
Yidle-diddle-didle-didle man.</p>
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		<title>Motivating Children to Practice Music: Introduction</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 23:48:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Madoline Hatter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In order to persuade anyone to read or believe what advice I attempt to provide, I must first relate that my strong disinclination for music practice is long past, and that not only did I major in music, but practicing the piano is now a favorite form of study and recreation. From growing up among other musicians and my little experience in teaching piano lessons, I have never doubted that inability or reluctance to practice is more common than it is uncommon. I have the firsthand experience of being a reluctant piano student and a trial upon the patience and efforts of several piano teachers and my mother and so would like to help those in that frustrating position by sharing my observations concerning the various reasons which may prevent regular and productive practice by young or beginning music students and offer some possible suggestions for improvement.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3><strong>Advice on Motivating Children to Practice Music</strong></h3>
<p align="left"><em> </em> from someone who once hated to practice the piano<em> </em></p>
<p><img src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/mozart-at-pianoforte-200.jpg" alt="Young Mozart at the Piano by E.S.M (MozartiniShop.com)" align="left" width="120" />In order to persuade anyone to read or believe what advice I attempt to provide, I must first relate that my strong disinclination for music practice is long past, and that not only did I major in music, but practicing the piano is now a favorite form of study and recreation. From growing up among other musicians and my little experience in teaching piano lessons, I have never doubted that inability or reluctance to practice is more common than it is uncommon. I have the firsthand experience of being a reluctant piano student and a trial upon the patience and efforts of several piano teachers and my mother and so would like to help those in that frustrating position by sharing my observations concerning the various reasons which may prevent regular and productive practice by young or beginning music students and offer some possible suggestions for improvement.</p>
<p>It is a funny thing that practicing the piano should seem to require so much discipline. My sister and I were really very easy to manage as children and teenagers. We did well in school, preferred to read books rather than go out, hardly spent any money, were never punished, and did everything expected of us except to practice the piano (we started learning at the ages of 5 and 3). In fact we both so severely disliked piano practice that our usual way was for each of us to play through our pieces for 20 minutes once a week just before walking to our teacher&#8217;s house. Incredibly enough, we advanced enough to show that our dislike of practice did not result from lack of ability because we successfully performed at recitals, church and school events, and our parents were proud.</p>
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<p>Perhaps it is that discipline in any field is difficult for people in general, but music did seem especially difficult—more so than drawing, karate, math, and even learning German—and in fact it is so. The enjoyment of those on the receiving end of a musical performance often forms the misconception that the preparation behind the result consists largely of pleasure and ease. In actuality music is as much a science as it is an art and as much a discipline as it is a pleasure (and in the result there is only as much pleasure as there was discipline before it). Consideration must especially be shown to children when requiring them to undertake a subject the parts of which may be impossible or difficult to grasp at a certain age, and every effort made to promote the small successes which create the eagerness and habits of long term achievement.</p>
<p>Following is a series of small essays addressing various aspects of piano practice as pertains to children. While my experience is primarily in piano and singing, the principles I relate can be effectively applied to other instruments.</p>
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		<title>Motivating Children to Practice Music (Part 3)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2010 11:42:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Madoline Hatter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Playing Slower for Faster Results 
In music, speed of execution has a tendency to be a used as an indicator of excellence. Playing fantastically fast is the trait commonly associated with musical virtuosity and accomplishment, most especially by amateur listeners. I will only say briefly how this favoritism for one trait does great injustice to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3><strong>Playing Slower for Faster Results </strong></h3>
<p><img src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/mozart-at-pianoforte-200.jpg" alt="Young Mozart at the Piano by E.S.M (MozartiniShop.com)" align="left" width="120" />In music, speed of execution has a tendency to be a used as an indicator of excellence. Playing fantastically fast is the trait commonly associated with musical virtuosity and accomplishment, most especially by amateur listeners. I will only say briefly how this favoritism for one trait does great injustice to the other facets of musical performance such as tone, articulation, etc. as the point of this little essay is to explain how overvalue of fast playing is many a young musician&#8217;s greatest enemy.</p>
<p>Playing music very fast is satisfying and a often sure way of getting compliments. For these reasons, young and beginning musicians will too often attempt to play a piece at a faster tempo than they can execute correctly. Sometimes the result is that the piece sounds “okay” but will never reach the level of excellence that is possible with slower practice. Usually the result of trying to play too fast is that the student repeatedly plays the wrong notes or the wrong rhythms and unless slow and deliberate practice is applied, scant improvement will result from many hours of such practice. The frustration of making the same mistakes over and over is the frequent reason of a child declaring “I hate this piece” or “I hate piano practice”.</p>
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<p>The reality is that those who learn to play brilliantly and fast have learned to practice very slowly. It is possible to make a game of playing slowly and deliberately by praising it as a skill and offering the task as a challenge. Setting slow tempo as an objective may help to remove the common delusion of its being tedious. Children should be encouraged to practice no faster than they can play without errors. The tempo should be gradually increased and if incidence of errors increase, it should be slowed down again. An older person should sit by if necessary and count out each beat as it is almost impossibly hard to play to a metronome when very young. A teacher may explain this principle, but cannot enforce its application in daily practice, therefore parental participation will be necessary on a daily basis.</p>
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<p>It should be clearly explained that playing slowly is not a sign of incompetence or stupidity, which other children might tease or adults accidentally imply. Accuracy should be placed before speed and when learned in this order the difference between playing fast and playing well fast will be obvious. Being able to play accurately will remove much anxiety in performance and lessons. Practicing slowly will make difficult passages seem less like insurmountable problems, render faster results, and increase a student&#8217;s satisfaction and determination in the endeavor.</p>
<p>For parents who are not themselves musicians, the following guidelines may be useful:</p>
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<li>The faster the projected tempo of a piece the slower it should be practiced. A Largo or Andante may often be learned at Largo or Andante. It is possible for many to play a Moderato prettily from the start and achieve successful performances, however some technical accomplishment may be lost if at least certain parts are not singled out for slow practice. I strongly recommend that one begins to study an Allegro or Presto at something like a Largo in order to play it well as Allegro or Presto.</li>
<li>Also please note that after the mastery of a fast piece of music, it is often necessary and always beneficial to practice it with exaggerated slowness and attention to detail on a regular basis. This activity is not only necessary for maintaining technique, but also prevents music from being reduced to an automatic activity, which is sometimes called physical memory. It often happens that the actual notes are forgotten and a pianist can only remember a piece by playing really fast without thinking. This is a condition in which a child is in terrible danger of memory loss in the middle of a recital and being frightened off forever.</li>
<li>The most obvious reason for practicing slowly is to figure out and memorize fingerings which then become automatic and fluent when playing faster. This is extremely important, but equally important is the development of technique and familiarity with dynamics and details which the student might otherwise forget or fail to notice.</li>
<li>When playing a piece slowly, make a point of playing beautifully and expressively, dwelling upon dynamics and articulation, bringing out legato or staccato, and making choices in phrasing, etc. Experimentation with expression and technique is also possible at this point so long as it is not in any way encourage bad habits. Practicing in this manner will not only improve the finished piece but can be extremely enjoyable to the practicer and those who are forced to hear the practicing. In fact, one can put on charming family performances of fast pieces expressed slowly. Those who are unaware of the indicated tempo may never suspect that an eloquent Andante is actually named Presto.</li>
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		<dc:creator>Penelope Pince</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Note: We are taking a short break from blogging this week and will be re-posting a few of our earlier articles that may not have been read by many of our current readers. If you have already read this article (and those few to come), we apologize for the repetition and assure you that we will have some new material for you soon. Thanks for reading!</em></p>
<p><strong>Language Lesson ~ Frugality is a Virtue<br />
</strong>(Re-Post: Original post date February 24, 2008)</p>
<p><img src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/language-lessons-with-aubrey-100.thumbnail.jpg" alt="Langauge Lessons Dictionary Image Copyright E.S.M." vspace="10" align="left" />In modern times where the spending of money is oftentimes equated with power and status, the word &#8220;frugal&#8221; or &#8220;frugality&#8221; seems to carry an almost  negative connotation and be associated with stinginess or miserliness (if you look it up in a thesaurus). However, if we go back to the actual definition and etymology (origins) of the word, we see that frugality is really a positive trait and nothing to be at all ashamed of.</p>
<p>&#8220;Frugal&#8221; or &#8220;frugality&#8221; is defined as &#8220;characterized by or reflecting economy in the use of resources&#8221;, &#8220;prudence in avoiding waste&#8221;, and &#8220;prudently saving or sparing; not wasteful&#8221;.</p>
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<p>The word frugal descends from the Latin <em>frugalis</em>, which has been associated with words such as &#8220;virtue&#8221; or &#8220;virtuous,&#8221; &#8220;honest,&#8221; &#8220;worthy,&#8221; &#8220;deserving,&#8221; &#8220;useful,&#8221; &#8220;thrifty,&#8221; &#8220;simple,&#8221; &#8220;profit&#8221; or &#8220;profitable,&#8221; &#8220;value&#8221; or &#8220;valuable,&#8221; &#8220;economical,&#8221; &#8220;temperate,&#8221; &#8220;sober,&#8221; and also &#8220;fruit&#8221; from <em>frux</em> or <em>fructus</em>, the root of the word &#8220;fruitful&#8221; which is defined as &#8220;yielding,&#8221; &#8220;profitable,&#8221; &#8220;productive&#8221; or &#8220;producing abundantly.&#8221;</p>
<p><img class="alignright" src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/greek-coin-athena.gif" alt="Greek Coin: Athena" width="150" />The word &#8220;economy,&#8221; which is often associated with frugality, is defined as &#8220;management of expenses or resources&#8221;. It desecends from the Latin <em>oeconomia</em> and the Greek <em>oikonomíā</em>, which meant &#8220;household management&#8221;, derived from <em>oikos</em> &#8220;house,&#8221; <em>nomos </em>&#8220;managing&#8221;, which comes from <em>nemein</em> &#8220;manage&#8221; (and also I believe, the root of the Old English <em>nima</em>n and the modern German &#8220;<em>nehmen</em>&#8221; which means &#8220;to take&#8221;).</p>
<p>Now that you&#8217;ve been so lucky as to have been subjected to this fascinating language lesson, in future if anyone makes fun of or criticizes your frugality, you may proudly and nicely, or not so nicely if they&#8217;ve been very rude as there is no excuse for rudeness, enlighten them as to the true and noble origins of your lifestyle.</p>
<p>Related Reading:<a title="Permanent Link to Language Lesson ~ Finance: A Fine Word" rel="bookmark" href="../language-lesson-finance-a-fine-word/85"><br />
Language Lesson ~ Finance: A Fine Word</a> by Penelope Pince</p>
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<p>Sources: <a title="Online Etymology Dictionary" href="http://www.etymonline.com" target="_blank">Online Etymology Dictionary</a>,  <a title="Merriam-Webster Dictionary" href="http://www.merriam-webster.com" target="_blank">Merriam-Webster</a>, <a title="Babylon Latin Dictionary" href="http://www.babylon.com/define/112/Latin-Dictionary.html" target="_blank">Babylon Latin Dictionary</a>, <a title="Germanic Etymology" href="http://starling.rinet.ru/cgi-bin/response.cgi?root=config&amp;morpho=0&amp;basename=%5Cdata%5Cie%5Cgermet&amp;first=961" target="_blank">Germanic Etymology</a></p>
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		<title>Language Lesson ~ Finance: A Fine Word</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Mar 2008 08:09:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[These days, the word &#8220;finance&#8221; is generally accepted to mean something like &#8220;the management of money,&#8221; and while &#8220;management of money&#8221; doesn&#8217;t sound quite so bad, the word itself  (&#8220;finance&#8221; or even worse, the plural &#8220;finances&#8221;) often seems accompanied by a host of psychological and emotional effects including but not limited to: fear, dread, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/language-lessons-with-aubrey-100.thumbnail.jpg" alt="Langauge Lessons Dictionary Image Copyright E.S.M." align="left" vspace="5" />These days, the word &#8220;finance&#8221; is generally accepted to mean something like &#8220;the management of money,&#8221; and while &#8220;management of money&#8221; doesn&#8217;t sound quite so bad, the word itself  (&#8220;finance&#8221; or even worse, the plural &#8220;finances&#8221;) often seems accompanied by a host of psychological and emotional effects including but not limited to: fear, dread, confusion, and sometimes a general feeling of doom.</p>
<p>For example, Merriam-Webster&#8217;s Online Dictionary provides the following definitions:</p>
<ol>
<li>(plural) money or other liquid resources of a government, business, group, or individual</li>
<li>the system that includes the circulation of money, the granting of credit, the making of investments, and the provision of banking facilities</li>
<li>the science or study of the management of funds</li>
<li>the obtaining of funds or capital</li>
</ol>
<p>To the layperson, these definitions may seem rather daunting, especially #2. However, a closer examination of the origins of the word &#8220;finance&#8221; reveals quite something else and suggests that perhaps the earlier users of the word may have had quite the more optimistic outlook in dealing with their finances.</p>
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<p>The word <em>finance </em>first appeared in Middle French around the year 1400, and it simply meant &#8220;ending, settlement of a debt.&#8221; This usage was derived from the Middle English <em>finis</em>, &#8220;a payment in settlement, fine or tax,&#8221; which in turn came from the Latin <em>finis,</em> meaning &#8220;end,&#8221; the origin of the present word &#8220;fine.&#8221;</p>
<p>If we travel back to c. 1200-1300, however, we see that that the word &#8220;fine&#8221; also had positive definitions as it still does today. In Latin, French and English, it meant things like &#8220;perfected, of highest quality,&#8221; &#8220;acme, peak, height,&#8221; &#8220;the highest good,&#8221; and &#8220;delicate, intricately skillful.&#8221;</p>
<p><img src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/03/comichistoryofromecreditordebtor300.jpg" alt="Debtor and Creditor. Seizure of Goods for a Debt. Image by John Leech, from: The Comic History of Rome by Gilbert Abbott A Beckett." align="right" vspace="1" />Hence, the use of the word &#8220;fine&#8221; as relates to monetary matters, was to &#8220;make fine,&#8221; &#8220;make one&#8217;s peace,&#8221; or &#8220;settle a matter,&#8221; which is a much more positive way of looking at one&#8217;s financial affairs.</p>
<p>It wasn&#8217;t until 1527 that the word fine began taking on the modern and more negative definition of &#8220;sum of money imposed as penalty for some offense,&#8221; and 1559 when assigned the verb meaning &#8220;to punish by a fine.&#8221;</p>
<p>So, for those of us who tend to regard our financial matters as drudgery or a form of punishment, perhaps it would behoove us all to adopt the view of our predecessors and look at it as &#8220;making [things] fine.&#8221; So, go and make peace with yourself (or your bank account, or creditors, if applicable.)</p>
<p>Sources: <a href="http://www.etymonline.com/" title="Online Etymology Dictionary" target="_blank">Online Etymology Dictionary</a>,  <a href="http://www.merriam-webster.com/" title="Merriam-Webster Dictionary" target="_blank">Merriam-Webster</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[In modern times where the spending of money is oftentimes equated with power and status, the word &#8220;frugal&#8221; or &#8220;frugality&#8221; seems to carry an almost  negative connotation and be associated with stinginess or miserliness (if you look it up in a thesaurus). However, if we go back to the actual definition and etymology (origins) [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/language-lessons-with-aubrey-100.thumbnail.jpg" alt="Langauge Lessons Dictionary Image Copyright E.S.M." vspace="10" align="left" />In modern times where the spending of money is oftentimes equated with power and status, the word &#8220;frugal&#8221; or &#8220;frugality&#8221; seems to carry an almost  negative connotation and be associated with stinginess or miserliness (if you look it up in a thesaurus). However, if we go back to the actual definition and etymology (origins) of the word, we see that frugality is really a positive trait and nothing to be at all ashamed of.</p>
<p>&#8220;Frugal&#8221; or &#8220;frugality&#8221; is defined as &#8220;characterized by or reflecting economy in the use of resources&#8221;, &#8220;prudence in avoiding waste&#8221;, and &#8220;prudently saving or sparing; not wasteful&#8221;.</p>
<p>The word frugal descends from the Latin <em>frugalis</em>, which has been associated with words such as &#8220;virtue&#8221; or &#8220;virtuous,&#8221; &#8220;honest,&#8221; &#8220;worthy,&#8221; &#8220;deserving,&#8221; &#8220;useful,&#8221; &#8220;thrifty,&#8221; &#8220;simple,&#8221; &#8220;profit&#8221; or &#8220;profitable,&#8221; &#8220;value&#8221; or &#8220;valuable,&#8221; &#8220;economical,&#8221; &#8220;temperate,&#8221; &#8220;sober,&#8221; and also &#8220;fruit&#8221; from <em>frux</em> or <em>fructus</em>, the root of the word &#8220;fruitful&#8221; which is defined as &#8220;yielding,&#8221; &#8220;profitable,&#8221; &#8220;productive&#8221; or &#8220;producing abundantly.&#8221;</p>
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<p><img class="alignright" src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/greek-coin-athena.gif" alt="Greek Coin: Athena" width="150" />The word &#8220;economy,&#8221; which is often associated with frugality, is defined as &#8220;management of expenses or resources&#8221;. It desecends from the Latin <em>oeconomia</em> and the Greek <em>oikonomíā</em>, which meant &#8220;household management&#8221;, derived from <em>oikos</em> &#8220;house,&#8221; <em>nomos </em>&#8220;managing&#8221;, which comes from <em>nemein</em> &#8220;manage&#8221; (and also I believe, the root of the Old English <em>nima</em>n and the modern German &#8220;<em>nehmen</em>&#8221; which means &#8220;to take&#8221;).</p>
<p>Now that you&#8217;ve been so lucky as to have been subjected to this fascinating language lesson, in future if anyone makes fun of or criticizes your frugality, you may proudly and nicely, or not so nicely if they&#8217;ve been very rude as there is no excuse for rudeness, enlighten them as to the true and noble origins of your lifestyle.</p>
<p>Next thrilling language lesson (coming soon) &#8212; <em>Finance: A Fine Word</em></p>
<p>Sources: <a title="Online Etymology Dictionary" href="http://www.etymonline.com" target="_blank">Online Etymology Dictionary</a>,  <a title="Merriam-Webster Dictionary" href="http://www.merriam-webster.com" target="_blank">Merriam-Webster</a>, <a title="Babylon Latin Dictionary" href="http://www.babylon.com/define/112/Latin-Dictionary.html" target="_blank">Babylon Latin Dictionary</a>, <a title="Germanic Etymology" href="http://starling.rinet.ru/cgi-bin/response.cgi?root=config&amp;morpho=0&amp;basename=%5Cdata%5Cie%5Cgermet&amp;first=961" target="_blank">Germanic Etymology</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lesson 1: When Not to DIY
In the past year, we only went out an average of 1-2 times per month to run errands and our garage door therefore got very little exercise. One day last month, when I was leaving for my monthly grocery shopping trip, the door wouldn&#8217;t close. I left it to Madoline [...]]]></description>
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<p><img class="alignleft alignnone size-full wp-image-224" style="margin: 5px; float: left;" title="Broken Garage Door" src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/garagedoor.gif" alt="Broken Garage Door" width="300" height="225" />In the past year, we only went out an average of 1-2 times per month to run errands and our garage door therefore got very little exercise. One day last month, when I was leaving for my monthly grocery shopping trip, the door wouldn&#8217;t close. I left it to Madoline to figure out, and when I got home I found the door stuck halfway down and slightly slanted, having come un-aligned and with 2 of the upper wheels fallen out of the track on one side. Being confirmed DIY-ers, we tried to see if we could fix it ourselves, which involved me standing on the back of a sofa we had purchased at Goodwill (with the plan of re-upholstering it) and wrestling with the door, but soon decided it was best left to a professional and we made to by putting the wheels back in the tracks to keep the door from sagging and damaging the entire contraption.</p>
<p>Our biological father came to visit last week, and although I told him we needed to call a professional repairman, he thought he could fix it to save us some money. One and a half hours later, the door was more crooked, we had lost 3 more wheels, the tracks had been knocked out of place and the door was literally hanging. Furthermore, I found out after the fact that my father had severely endangered his own life, and even worse, MY LIFE, by unwinding the tension cable. And worst of all, he had damaged the door further so that what might have been some minor repairs became major repair, including replacement of the tension rod.</p>
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<h3>Lesson 2: The Price of Not Sticking up for Yourself</h3>
<p>The only garage door specialist in our area is located about 40-50 miles away and they seemed uninterested in the job as they didn&#8217;t want to talk to us over the phone but instead told us to submit a request online, which we did twice (4 weeks apart) but to no avail. Fearing a total collapse resulting in further damage and expense as well as the insecurity of a half-closed garage door, we resorted to local handymen.</p>
<p>I went through the list of handymen in our area, and the first one I reached that wasn&#8217;t a voicemail told me he could fix ours for $150. He came over to take a look and said that he couldn&#8217;t fix the tension cables, which required specialists, but that he could re-align the door so that we could at least open and close it manually, and he might need to replace a few of the wheels and 2 brackets. He then gave me a quote of $225 for replacing 5 wheels and 2 brackets. So we agreed on 10:00 AM the next morning.</p>
<p>I got up at 9:30 AM the next morning (which wasn&#8217;t easy for me because I was up until after 4:00AM working on the computer) in anticipation of the handyman showing up at 10:00, but he didn&#8217;t show up until 10:30, using the following excuse: the weather and its effect on one&#8217;s desire to sleep in. So he fixed the garage door &#8211; replacing 1 wheel and 1 bracket &#8211; but told me after that we actually wouldn&#8217;t be able to open the door due to the damaged tension rod, which also requires a specialist.</p>
<p>We then had him fix a sprinkler leak in our front yard as well, a job he had agreed to do for $75, after which he gave me a total of $325 for the two jobs. Being somewhat muddle-headed and tired from lack of sleep, and even worse, a pushover (one of my worst traits when dealing with strangers), I wrote him a check for $325 without much argument except for asking, &#8220;So the garage door was $250?&#8221; to which he, of course, replied &#8220;Yes.&#8221;</p>
<p>After he left, I couldn&#8217;t stop thinking about the whole affair and kicking myself (mentally) for having been such a pushover. The quote of $225 had been for if he would have to replace 5 wheels and 2 brackets. Instead, he only replaced 1 wheel and 1 bracket, and he charged me $25 more than the price he had quoted me. To add insult to injury, we still can&#8217;t open or close our garage door as he had promised beforehand. (Not to mention his showing up a 1/2 hour late for having slept in.) If I had argued with him about it, I probably could have paid at least $50 less.</p>
<p><img class="alignright alignnone size-full wp-image-223" style="margin: 5px; float: right;" title="Funny Face Image" src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/funnyface.gif" alt="Funny Face Image" width="150" height="150" />That night, I couldn&#8217;t sleep for thinking about all this and decided I would call him up the next day (yesterday) to ask about this and tell him I didn&#8217;t think what he did was right. But the next day, the check had already cleared our bank account (he must have driven straight from our house to the bank) and I decided it probably wouldn&#8217;t have done much good anyway and the conversation probably would only have aggravated me more. So I decided to just chalk it up to a valuable lesson learned about the price of being spineless. And also to never hire this handyman again.</p>
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		<title>Motivating Children to Practice Music (Part 2)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 13:23:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Madoline Hatter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Playing the Piano is a Privilege (Not a Chore)

An interesting experiment would be to forbid a young child to ever touch the piano, after all it is a very expensive instrument. One can easily imagine how much higher the piano instantly rises in that child's estimation. One then promises the child that he or she will be “allowed” to begin learning the piano at a certain age. Even better then, if someone in the family—a parent, older sibling or cousin—were to frequently play very charming pieces of the kind accessible to children. Pieces from the Romantic era are very suitable for this purpose (e.g. Fϋr Elise &#038; Doll's Dream), should be repeated often and might even have stories invented about them. It is very natural that the child will aspire to play these pieces someday, and a united goal has been formed without duress.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3><strong>Playing the Piano is a Privilege (Not a Chore) </strong></h3>
<p><img src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/mozart-at-pianoforte-200.jpg" alt="Young Mozart at the Piano by E.S.M (MozartiniShop.com)" align="left" width="120" />An interesting experiment would be to forbid a young child to ever touch the piano, after all it is a very expensive instrument. One can easily imagine how much higher the piano instantly rises in that child&#8217;s estimation. One then promises the child that he or she will be “allowed” to begin learning the piano at a certain age. Even better then, if someone in the family—a parent, older sibling or cousin—were to frequently play very charming pieces of the kind accessible to children. Pieces from the Romantic era are very suitable for this purpose (e.g. Fϋr Elise &amp; Doll&#8217;s Dream), should be repeated often and might even have stories invented about them. It is very natural that the child will aspire to play these pieces someday, and a united goal has been formed without duress.</p>
<p>When the long awaited birthday or predetermined date is come, the parent or guardian sets a time limit in which the child is allowed to practice the piano (concentration usually lasts 15-30 minutes so it is better to set too short a time than too long) and strictly enforces it. What happens after this point is too individual to generally state, but I think it is likely that practice will be less dreaded, more concentrated and the end will seem to come too soon. Eventually the child may become proficient enough that the proficiency itself will be a great motivation and make strict regulation of practice unnecessary.</p>
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<p>The above scenario may strike some people as unusual and even unnatural. I am not instructing that the reader follow this method and neither will I discourage it for I see no harm in it. It should be remembered however that playing music is a privilege whatever our age or skill level. It should not be a thing to be suffered and should a child find a certain piece particularly odious, it may be for the better to change it for one that better pleases. If a child really despises the art, it may not be too harmful to allow him or her to give it up, for nearly everyone who gave up playing the piano at a young age lives to regret it and it is never too late to begin learning again with the knowledge of years lost as a valuable lesson learned.</p>
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		<title>Lessons Learned This Tax Season: Procrastination May Be Leading Cause of Financial Death</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 13:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Penelope Pince</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How procrastination unforeseen events and delays such as power outages and technology malfunction almost got me in trouble with my tax return.]]></description>
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<p>As some of you already know, I am the worst of procrastinators. And taxes being so unpleasant, I naturally tend to procrastinate when it comes to filing my taxes every year.</p>
<p>First of all, I do put off filing my tax return for one valid reason: we owe each year so I prefer to wait till April to file and pay in order to earn more interest in  savings. But this also gives me an excuse to put off working on our returns.</p>
<p>This year I was worse than usual, and my procrastination and 2 unforeseen events almost got me in trouble.</p>
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<h2>My Taxing Experience</h2>
<ul>
<li><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">Dec. 31, 2008–April 11, 2009 — Procrastinated</span><br />
</strong>We have a few different sources of income so there are a lot of elements involved in our tax returns – calculating various types of expenses and almost 20 different forms between the two of us. Needless to say, this takes a lot of preparation, which I just kept putting off.</li>
<li><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>April 11 9:30PM </strong><strong>— </strong><strong>Started to panic</strong></span><br />
3 days, 2 hours before April 15th, I finally realized just how little time was left and kicked myself into action.</li>
<li><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>April 12</strong>–<strong>13 </strong><strong>— </strong><strong>Worked like mad</strong></span><br />
Pulled an all-nighter and finished my &#8220;first draft&#8221; of the PDF forms.</li>
<li><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>April 13 11:00PM </strong><strong>— </strong><strong>Crisis #1:</strong><strong> Printer wouldn&#8217;t print</strong></span><br />
After double- &amp; triple-checking the forms and calculations, I was ready to print and be done with it — only to find that the printer wouldn&#8217;t print. I re-filled the ink cartridge but print quality was awful. Thinking the ink needed time to settle and let the air bubbles work their way up, I called it a night.</li>
<li><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>April 14 5:45PM </strong><strong>— </strong><strong>Crisis </strong></span><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">#2: Power outage</span><br />
</strong>After more ink re-filling and printer maintenance, it was printing properly again, but half-way through approx. 40 pages, our power went out due to wind storms in the area. the outage was all over town and lasted until 11:00PM, so I didn&#8217;t finish compiling and packing everything up till around 1:15AM.</li>
<li><span style="color: #32cd32;"><strong>April 15 </strong><strong>— </strong><strong>Phew!</strong></span><br />
Got to the post office and got everything mailed out. Thoroughly exhausted.</li>
</ul>
<p>I was extremely lucky that I was still able to get everything done by the 15th. Had I delayed just one more day, I probably wouldn&#8217;t have made it. When the power went out on the 14th, I started contemplating all the other things that could possibly go wrong, such as:</p>
<ul>
<li><em>What if my car won&#8217;t start when I need to go the Post Office tomorrow?</em></li>
<li><em>What if the wind storm gets worse tomorrow and I can&#8217;t drive?</em></li>
</ul>
<p>Any number of things could have prevented me from being able to get our returns postmarked on the 15th. The amount we owe is high enough that a penalty and interest charge would be quite unpleasant.</p>
<p>This experience got me thinking about other ways procrastination can set back your financial health. I have been thinking about this for the last 2 days and here are my conclusions.</p>
<h2>Other ways procrastination can lead to financial disease (and possible eventual death)</h2>
<p><strong>Putting off . . .</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Contacting service providers, insurance companies, etc. to lower your bills</strong></li>
<li><strong>Canceling services</strong> you no longer need</li>
<li><strong>Minor maintenance and repairs</strong> on your home or car until they become major repairs</li>
<li><strong>Paying off credit card debt</strong> by just paying the minimum payment</li>
<li><strong>Refinancing loans</strong> when interest rates are low<strong><br />
</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>I have to admit I have been guilty of all but one of the above (I don&#8217;t have credit card debt). When I was in college, my fellow students and I often joked about how we procrastinated studying for our exams or writing term papers. The fact is, I&#8217;m the type that works better under pressure. Oftentimes, when I sat down to write a paper that wasn&#8217;t due for a few more days, I would get writer&#8217;s block. But the night before the due date, I would get serious and the ideas would start flowing.</p>
<p>Thus, I have always operated under the premise that this is just how I work so it&#8217;s O.K. to procrastinate. But now that I&#8217;m a grown-up dealing with grown-up matters where it&#8217;s no longer just a grade at stake, I&#8217;m beginning to see just how self-destructive this type of behavior can be. While this past week has been torture, I have learned a valuable lesson, so perhaps it was good for me that I had this harrowing experience.</p>
<p>It seems the tax gods were with me this time and let me get by with a lesson learned and no harm done. I shouldn&#8217;t expect to be so lucky again and must start getting things done ahead of time. Not only could it save me potential financial penalties, but keep the stress and blood pressure levels to a minimum.</p>
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		<title>Free and Frugal Things to Do in Los Angeles</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2008 17:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Penelope Pince</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Madoline and I lived in Los Angeles (in the San Fernando Valley) for a year and a half, during which time we went through a shopaholic phase followed by a phase of extreme frugality (described in Our Family Financial History). When we decided to be frugal, I learned a lot about free and low cost [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.pntrs.com/t/R0BER0NDREBFREhFTEBETEtKQw"><img class="alignright" style="border: 0pt none; margin: 10px;" title="The 2009 Entertainment® Book - Great Savings on Dining, Shopping, Travel, Attractions, Movie Tickets &amp; More!" src="http://www.pntrs.com/b/R0BER0NDREBFREhFTEBETEtKQw" border="0" alt="The 2009 Entertainment® Book - Great Savings on Dining, Shopping, Travel, Attractions, Movie Tickets &amp; More!" width="250" height="250" /></a>Madoline and I lived in Los Angeles (in the San Fernando Valley) for a year and a half, during which time we went through a shopaholic phase followed by a phase of extreme frugality (described in <a title="Our Family Financial History" href="http://pecuniarities.com/our-family-financial-history/307" target="_self">Our Family Financial History</a>). When we decided to be frugal, I learned a lot about free and low cost activities in the area. Here we will share some suggestions for free and frugal things to do in the Los Angeles area. Note that I have not been to all the places listed here, but many are things I remember hearing or reading about while living there there and others have been gathered from online sources.</p>
<p>All activities listed below are FREE of admission charges unless otherwise noted (some activities are free on particular days or at particular times of day). Those that are not free cost $5 or less per person. Parking fees are noted whenever possible. Depending on the distance and number of persons in your group, public transit may or may not be less expensive. Check out an earlier post I wrote on <a title="How to Save Gas and Money with Google Maps" href="http://pecuniarities.com/how-to-save-gas-and-time-with-google-maps/388" target="_self">How to Save Gas and Time by Using Google Maps</a>, which includes tips on looking up public transportation directions and fares.</p>
<h2>General &amp; Sight-Seeing</h2>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-599" title="The Grove Fountain Photo by r3m3dy" src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/the-grove-fountain.jpg" alt="The Grove Fountain Photo by r3m3dy" width="400" height="269" /><br />
The Grove Fountain Photo credit: <a title="Grove Fountain Photo by r3m3dy" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/r3m3dy/468123552/" target="_blank">r3m3dy</a></p>
<p>Our favorite frugal activity was walking malls and pretty places to both sight-see and get some exercise. Here are some of our favorite places to walk. Note that even though these include shopping centers, <em>you do not need to shop in order to enjoy the scenery and atmosphere!</em></p>
<ul>
<li>
<h3>Santa Monica 3rd Street Promenade</h3>
<p>Grab a drink or ice cream cone and just enjoy the scenery and street performers. Check out Santa Monica Pier while you&#8217;re there. You don&#8217;t have to spend money on the rides, just enjoy the scenery, have a look at the <a title="Santa Monica Pier Carousel" href="http://www.santamonicapier.org/" target="_blank">famous carousel</a> built in 1916.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="Santa Monica 3rd Street Promenade" href="http://www.latourist.com/index.php?page=third-street-promenade" target="_blank">Santa Monica 3rd Street Promenade</a></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>
<h3>The Grove</h3>
<p>A very pretty outdoor mall with cute buildings and a park-like setting with fountains and outdoor seating. Includes free events such as Movies in the Park, Girls Night Out, Music in the Park, etc.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="The Grove Los Angeles" href="http://www.thegrovela.com/calendar.php" target="_blank">The Grove</a></li>
<li>
<h3>Farmers Market</h3>
<h3><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-625" style="margin: 5px 15px;" title="Farmers Market Photo by andy castro" src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/farmers-market.jpg" alt="" width="135" height="240" /></h3>
<p>The Farmers Market isn&#8217;t only a place to shop for groceries, but they host free events all year round including a Summer Music Series; Family Fun with music, arts &amp; crafts; Fall Festival with marching band, petting zoo, pig races, etc.; Holiday Festivities including music, Menorah lighting, caroling and a toy soldier band; Mardi Gras with Cajun bands, mask making, etc.; and the Gilmore Heritage Auto Show featuring more than 100 vintage and classic cars. (Photo credit: <a title="andy castro on flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/andycastro/2082920156/" target="_blank">andy castro</a>)</p>
<p>More information: <a title="Farmers Market Annual Events Los Angeles" href="http://www.farmersmarketla.com/newsandevents/index.asp" target="_blank">Farmers Market Events</a></li>
<li>
<h3>Downtown Burbank</h3>
<p>&#8220;Come Out and Dance&#8221; with live bands with <strong>free dance lessons</strong>, fine arts festivals, Halloween trick-or-treat, Holiday Cheer and more in Downtown Burbank.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="Events in Downtown Burbank" href="http://www.downtown-burbank.org/events.php?" target="_blank">Events in Downtown Burbank</a></li>
</ul>
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<h2>Entertainment</h2>
<ul>
<li>
<h3>The Hollywood Bowl Museum</h3>
<p>The Hollywood Bowl is the world&#8217;s largest natural amphitheater which has hosted symphonies, opera, jazz, ballet, presidential addresses, rock concerts, etc. The grounds are open to the public to during the day to see the amphitheater. During the summer months, the Bowl offers rehearsals every Tuesday, Thursday &amp; Friday, from 9 AM to noon. Admission to the rehearsals is free. The Hollywood Bowl museum is open to the public during the day year-round, and nights before concerts.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="The Hollywood Bowl Museum" href="http://www.hollywoodbowl.com/about/museum.cfm" target="_blank">The Hollywood Bowl</a></li>
<li>
<h3>TV Studio Audience</h3>
<p>Attend a TV show or sitcom taping as studio audience. Tickets are free, but you may be there until midnight. A great way to see your favorite stars live and an episode of your favorite show before everybody else.</p>
<p>More information and tickets: <a title="Free TV Studio Audience Tickets" href="http://www.tvtickets.com/" target="_blank">TV Tickets, Audience Unlimited</a></li>
</ul>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-611" title="Universal Studios Hollywood" src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/universal-studios.jpg" alt="Universal Studios Hollywood" width="400" height="300" /><br />
Universal Studios Hollywood</p>
<ul>
<li>
<h3>Film Screenings</h3>
<p>Before films are released, they are often screened to audiences for input. Los Angeles, being the film capitol of the world, is full of films waiting to be screened. However, this one is more based on opportunity striking, because you often need to be invited. We used to go to the malls a lot, sometimes for shopping and sometimes just to walk, and perhaps 1 out of 4 times, we were approached by people looking for film screening audiences. After the film, you are asked to fill out a questionnaire of what you thought of the movie, and you might be selected to stay behind with a small group to answer questions and provide more feedback.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="How to Attend a Free Movie Screening" href="http://www.ehow.com/how_2117584_attend-free-movie-screening.html" target="_blank">Tips for How to Attend a Free Movie Screening</a></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>
<h3>Universal City Walk Summer Block Party</h3>
<p>Free entertainment and movies at Universal Studios City Walk (no admission fee) seven nights a week during the summer. But to save on parking, you will want to find free or low-cost parking elsewhere and walk up to the City Walk.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="Universal Studios City Walk Summer Block Party Los Angeles" href="http://citywalkhollywood.com/" target="_blank">Universal Studios City Walk</a></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>
<h3>Grand Performances</h3>
<p>Grand Performances presents free performing arts that reflect the best of global culture and inspire community among the diverse peoples of Los Angeles.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="Grand Performances" href="http://grandperformances.org/index.cfm/fuseaction/about.welcome" target="_blank">Grand Performances at California Plaza</a></li>
</ul>
<h2>Outdoor Activities</h2>
<ul>
<li>
<h3>Night Hikes at Griffith Park</h3>
<p>The Sierra Club leads free 2-hour hikes open to the public to view nightlife and birds. They encourage you to bring binoculars to better see the wildlife.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="Night Hikes Griffith Park Los Angeles" href="http://gocitykids.parentsconnect.com/calendar/griffith-park-4730-crystal-springs-drive-los-angeles-ca-90027-us#9124" target="_blank">Night Hikes</a></li>
<li>
<h3>L.A. Mountains</h3>
<p>Several parks that have free group hikes through several canyons and ranches. Some have a $1-$5 parking fee, but the hikes are free.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="L.A. Mountains Hikes and Events Calendar" href="http://www.lamountains.com/programs_calendars.asp" target="_blank">L.A. Mountains Hikes and Events Calendars </a></li>
</ul>
<h2>Art &amp; Culture</h2>
</p>
<p align="center">
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-596" style="aligncenter" title="The Getty Villa" src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/getty-villa.jpg" alt="The Getty Villa" width="400" height="300" /><br />
The Getty Villa</p>
<p>It is recommended that you check with each institution regarding admission and parking fees prior to visiting as the information may change.</p>
<ul>
<li>
<h3>The Getty Center</h3>
<p>&#8220;The Getty Center presents the Getty&#8217;s <a title="The Getty Museum" href="http://www.getty.edu/visit/see_do/art.html" target="_blank">collection of Western art</a> from the Middle Ages to the present against a backdrop of dramatic architecture, tranquil gardens, and breathtaking views.&#8221; Admission is Free, but parking is $8.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="The Getty Center" href="http://www.getty.edu/visit/" target="_blank">The Getty Center</a></li>
<li>
<h3>The Getty Villa</h3>
<p>The Getty Villa, located in Malibu, is an educational center and museum dedicated to the study of the arts and cultures of ancient Greece, Rome, and Etruria.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="The Getty Center" href="http://www.getty.edu/visit/" target="_blank">The Getty Center</a></li>
<li>
<h3>Skirball Cutural Center</h3>
<p>A great cultural and historical museum which offers <strong>free admissions on Thursdays</strong> and other free events such as film screenings. We once attended a great exhibit on Albert Einstein here.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="Skirball Cutural Center Los Angeles" href="http://www.skirball.org/index.php" target="_blank">The Skirball Cultural Center</a></li>
<li>
<h3>Los Angeles County Museum of Art (LACMA)</h3>
<p>The largest arm museum in the western United States. <strong>On the second Tuesday of each month, general admission to the permanent galleries and non-ticketed exhibitions is free to all.</strong> <strong>After 5 pm, you may pay what you wish. <em>Evening special: Vehicles entering the 6th Street parking garage after 7 pm park for free</em>.</strong></p>
<p>More information: <a title="Los Angeles County Museum of Art LACMA" href="http://www.lacma.org/info/HoursDirections.aspx" target="_blank">Los Angeles County Museum of Art (LACMA)</a></li>
<li>
<h3>Los Angeles Public Library</h3>
<p>This is one of our favorite places in the world &#8211; a 5-story building full of books. Aside from books, it is also a center of art and architecture with its distinctive sphinxes and rooftop pyramids. Docent guided tours are available daily. Parking is $1 Flat Rate for cars entering after 3PM, and on Saturdays and Sundays.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="Los Angeles Public Library Tours" href="http://www.lapl.org/central/tours.html" target="_blank">Los Angeles Public Library Tours</a></li>
</ul>
<h2>Educational</h2>
<ul>
<li>
<h3>Travel Town Museum</h3>
<p>A combination transportation museum and recreation center located at the L.A. Zoo. Has a miniature train ride tour of the perimeter of the museum for a small fee. Picnic tables and barbecue facilities are available on a first come, first serve basis. Admission is free, parking available on Museum premises.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="Travel Town Museum" href="http://www.cityofla.org/RAP/grifmet/tt/index.htm" target="_blank">Travel Town Museum</a></li>
<li>
<h3>Griffith Observatory</h3>
<p>Located at Griffith Park, Griffith Observatory&#8217;s grounds, exhibits, and telescopes are open and free to the public each day the building is open. The Observatory also offers programs, special events, and public star parties.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="Griffith Observatory" href="http://www.griffithobservatory.org/" target="_blank">Griffith Observatory</a></li>
</ul>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-597" title="Griffith Observatory" src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/griffith-observatory-400.jpg" alt="Griffith Observatory" width="400" height="300" /><br />
Griffith Observatory</p>
<ul>
<li>
<h3>California Science Center</h3>
<p>&#8220;The California Science Center offers fun and informative permanent exhibits presented in interactive worlds. Through hands-on experiences in our galleries, you&#8217;ll learn about human inventions and innovations, the life processes of living things and more.&#8221; Admission to permanent exhibits is free, additional charge for IMAX and special exhbitions. Parking is $6.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="California Science Center" href="http://www.californiasciencecenter.org/Exhibits/Exhibits.php" target="_blank">California Science Center</a></li>
<li>
<h3>Los Angeles Fire Department Historical Society &#8211; Hollywood Museum 27</h3>
<p>Museuem and exhibit of firefighting history dating back to the 1880s including a library and learning center on fire and life safety for both children and adults.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="Los Angeles Fire Department Hisotorical Society and Museum" href="http://www.lafdmuseum.org/museum_hollywood" target="_blank">LAFD Historical Society</a></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>
<h3>Barnes and Noble Storytime</h3>
<p>Barnes and Noble bookstore offers storytime for children, toddlers, and beginning readers. This is a nationwide program. Check the events calendar for the schedule of the store closest to you.</p>
<p>More information: <a title="Barnes and Noble Store Events Calendar" href="http://storelocator.barnesandnoble.com/" target="_blank">Barnes and Noble Store Events Calendar</a></li>
<li>
<h3>Santa Monica Pier Aquarium</h3>
<p>Exhibits and public programs to educate kids and families about the ocean, its animal and plant life. Children under 12 enter free, adults pay a suggested admission of $5 ($2 minimum).</p>
<p>More information: <a title="Santa Monica Pier" href="http://www.santamonicapier.org/" target="_blank">Santa Monica Pier</a>, <a title="Santa Monica Pier Aquarium" href="http://www.healthebay.org/smpa/" target="_blank">Santa Monica Pier Aquarium</a></li>
</ul>
<h2>Sources for More Free Events and Frugal Activities in the Los Angeles Area</h2>
<ul>
<li>This week in &#8230; Guides to events such as concerts, movies, hikes and other activities in the area (some free, some not)<a title="This week in Burbank" href="http://thisweekinburbank.com/" target="_blank"><br />
</a></p>
<ul>
<li><strong><a title="This week in Burbank" href="http://thisweekinburbank.com/" target="_blank">Burbank</a></strong></li>
<li><strong>Santa Monica</strong></li>
<li><strong><a title="This week in the Pacific Palisades" href="http://thisweekinpacificpalisades.com/" target="_blank">Pacific Palisades</a></strong></li>
<li><strong><a title="This week in Beverly Hills" href="http://thisweekinbeverlyhills.com/" target="_blank">Beverly Hills</a></strong></li>
<li><strong><a title="This week in Malibu" href="http://thisweekinmalibu.com/" target="_blank">Malibu</a></strong></li>
<li><a title="This week in the East San Fernando Valley" href="http://east.thisweekinthevalley.com/" target="_blank"><strong>East San Fernando Valley</strong> (Encino, Sherman Oaks, Studio City &amp; surrounding)</a></li>
<li><a title="This week in the West Valley" href="http://west.thisweekinthevalley.com/" target="_blank"><strong>West San Fernando Valley</strong> (Calabasas, Woodland Hills, Tarzana &amp; surrounding)</a></li>
<li><strong><a title="This week in So Cal" href="http://www.thisweekinsocal.com/" target="_blank">Southern California</a></strong></li>
</ul>
<p><a title="This week in Burbank" href="http://thisweekinburbank.com/" target="_blank"> </a><a title="Los Angeles Dept of Parks and Recreations" href="http://www.laparks.org/index.htm" target="_blank"></a></li>
<li><strong><a title="Los Angeles Dept of Parks and Recreations" href="http://www.laparks.org/index.htm" target="_blank">Los Angeles Department of Parks and Recreation</a></strong><br />
Guide of activities, programs and classes offered through the parks and recreations. Some may be free and some for a fee.</li>
<li><strong><a title="Parents Connect Activity Calendar Los Angeles" href="http://gocitykids.parentsconnect.com/region/los-angeles-ca-usa" target="_blank">Parents Connect Activity Calendar &#8211; Los Angeles</a></strong></li>
<li><strong><a title="Free Things to do in L.A." href="http://eyespyla.com/www/thebuzz.nsf/457fe5b571dabc0288256eaf007c316b/6271576ab7e0159d88256eaf007dc00f!OpenDocument" target="_blank">Eye Spy L.A. Free Things to Do in Los Angeles</a><br />
</strong></li>
</ul>
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		<title>Public Domain Music: Music you already own!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Guide to Free Sheet Music on the Web for Music Students &#38; Teachers

Many composers, Wolfgang Mozart and Ludwig van Beethoven among them, have no living descendants and therefore their works have been bequeathed to the world, and to you. Why then are poor college students required to purchase volume after volume of expensive music scores [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Guide to Free Sheet Music on the Web for Music Students &amp; Teachers</h4>
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<p>Many composers, Wolfgang Mozart and Ludwig van Beethoven among them, have no living descendants and therefore their works have been bequeathed to the world, and to you. Why then are poor college students required to purchase volume after volume of expensive music scores for the purpose of learning a few pieces each semester? Surely not for the enlightenment of reading the editors&#8217; introductions and comments (explanations which can be found elsewhere for less cost).</p>
<p>Thanks to the Internet, archives of public domain music are increasingly readily available to music students, teachers, and performers for the mere cost of paper and ink (plus the use of a computer). Some  benefits of using public domain music are as follows:</p>
<ol>
<li>It saves money. A ream of paper will cost you less than most music books and usually contains more pages. An ink cartridge is also cheaper than most music books (I nearly purchased a $70 book of sonatas once) and you can save more money by refilling the ink yourself.</li>
<li>This resource allows you to try out pieces without purchasing beforehand music that might not suit you.</li>
<li>Music teachers that regularly use public domain music do not need to stock up books for resale or send students and parents on quixotic quests for a particular edition.</li>
<li>Public domain music is useful for the study of music literature as it is easily collected and organized and can be studied directly off the computer screen.</li>
<li>These scores are often early editions (very quaint in appearance) and may be useful for comparisons in research and analytical papers.</li>
</ol>
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<p>The following are a few tips on printing and organizing public domain music:</p>
<ul>
<li>Select “scale to fit page” in print settings before printing.</li>
<li>Print music one-sided so that the pages can be spread out on a piano. Even if you do not intend to play it yourself, you may need an accompanist at some future time.</li>
<li>Have one folder containing only pieces being currently studied for the purpose of taking to your lessons. Pieces being considered can temporarily reside here.</li>
<li>Organize printed music into categories by instrument, style, or composer. Secure these groupings of music into manila folders by the use of brads or threading yarn or string through punched holes. This method allows the music to be read, reorganized, or taken out and prevents the chaotic accumulation of papers on, around, and under, your piano.</li>
<li>If your music has been wrinkled and trampled from being badly kept, we can tell you from personal experience that it is possible to restore damaged printouts by ironing with a flat  iron (no steam) on a firm surface such as a table covered with a sheet. Ironing through a sheet of blank paper will ensure that you do not get ink on your iron.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Note About Copyright &amp; Public Domain Works</strong><br />
Not all free music listed on the Internet is legally in the public domain. Countries have different copyright laws which determine the date range from which a work enters into public domain. I believe the general rule for most countries (United States and Europe) is 70 years for works produced before 1978, but Canada only has a 50 year rule. There is no universal copyright law and local laws must be respected. Copyrights may be renewed by the owners be they companies or individuals. A musical work can simultaneously exist in editions that are in the public domain as well as editions that are copyrighted.</p>
<h3>List of Sites for Public Domain Music</h3>
<h4>Instrumental Sheet Music</h4>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.sheetmusicfox.com/composers.html" title="Sheet Music Fox" target="_blank">Sheet Music Fox</a><br />
An extensive collection of free classical sheet music for almost all types of instruments and ensembles including sonatas, concertos, symphonies, etc. Some of the larger collections (for composers such as Mozart) spill over into Sheet Music Archive.</li>
<li><a href="http://sheetmusicarchive.net/index.cfm" title="Sheet Music Archive" target="_blank">Sheet Music Archive</a><br />
This site allows 2 free downloads a day, or unlimited downloads for a yearly subscription fee of $19.95 per year. But with many other free sites available, there really isn&#8217;t much need to pay for public domain music.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.pianopublicdomain.com/freebies" title="Public Domain Piano Sheet Music" target="_blank">Piano Public Domain</a><br />
As the title suggests, this is a collection of public domain classical music for piano. This site has both free and non-free music. The link above will take you to the free music. Other music is available at a small charge.</li>
<li><a href="http://icking-music-archive.org/ByComposer.php" title="WIMA: Werner Icking Music Archive Free Classical Sheet Music" target="_blank">Werner Icking Music Archiv</a><a href="http://icking-music-archive.org/ByComposer.php" title="WIMA: Werner Icking Music Archive Free Classical Sheet Music" target="_blank">e</a><br />
Free sheet music for various instruments by an extensive list of composers.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.noten-klavier.de/" title="Free Classical Sheet Music" target="_blank">Noten-Klavieren.de</a> (Site in German)<br />
Click on &#8220;Komponisten&#8221; for the directory of free music sorted by composers, &#8220;Kammermusik&#8221; (Chamber Music) for ensemble pieces, which consist mainly of piano and violin duos, but there are also a few trios. &#8220;Klavier&#8221; means Piano, and &#8220;Geige&#8221; means Violin. Click on the title of the piece you want, then either &#8220;pdf&#8221; to print it or &#8220;mp3&#8243; to hear how the piece sounds.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.mutopiaproject.org/" title="Mutopia Free Classical Sheet Music" target="_blank">Mutopia</a><br />
A collection of music in the public domain which has been typeset by a team of volunteers. Currently holds 1,264 works by well-known composers such as Bach, Beethoven, Chopin, Mozart, etc.</li>
</ul>
<h4>Vocal Sheet Music</h4>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://artsongcentral.com/" title="Art Song Central" target="_blank">Art Song Central</a><br />
Still a fairly new but growing collection of art songs and arias for vocalists. Freely available to singers and teachers to print in PDF format.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.cpdl.org/wiki/index.php/Main_Page" title="Choral Public Domain Library" target="_blank">Choral Public Domain Library</a><br />
An extensive collection of vocal music in various arrangements for small or large ensembles. As of this writing, this collection holds 9,081 score pages and 1,292 composer pages. An invaluable resource for singers and choirs.</li>
</ul>
<h4>For Scholars of Music</h4>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://hcl.harvard.edu/libraries/loebmusic/collections/digital.html" title="Harvard Digital Scores Collection" target="_blank">Digital Scores Collection</a> (Harvard University)<br />
This is a library of digital photographs of original or old scores in the hand of the composers or copyists. This collection has been available to Harvard students and scholars around the world.</li>
<li><a href="https://urresearch.rochester.edu/handle/1802/291" title="Sibley Music Library" target="_blank">Sibley Music Library</a> (University of Rochester)<br />
Scans of various works by a large list of composers.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.dlib.indiana.edu/variations/scores/" title="Indiana University Online Music Scores" target="_blank">VARIATIONS Prototype: Online Music Scores</a> (Indiana University)<br />
A collection of scans of opera, song, choral, chamber, orchestral, solo instrumental and piano literature.</li>
</ul>
<p>The above are just a few of the sites where public domain sheet music can be found. Another good place for music resources is your public library where you can check out books and scores of classical and contemporary music (including songbooks of contemporary artists and soundtracks of films). However, scores you check out from the library, especially, contemporary volumes, are not likely to be in the public domain, so be sure to abide by the copyright laws. The library is a good way for you to try out or learn new music you otherwise wouldn&#8217;t have access to.</p>
<p>For more information and links for public domain sheet music, we recommend visiting the following websites:</p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://altrove.de/imslp/othersites.html" title="IMSLP: Other music score websites" target="_blank"> IMSLP: Other music score websites</a></li>
<li>Online Music Scores (Arcadia University)</li>
</ul>
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		<title>Motivating Children to Practice Music (Part 4)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2008 08:51:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Madoline Hatter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Divide and Conquer
There is a skill called sight-reading. Sight-reading is the act of playing a piece of music through without having practiced it beforehand. We usually sight-read a piece when considering whether to learn it or when it is first assigned to us by an instructor. Some people continue to sight-read a piece indefinitely without [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Divide and Conquer</h3>
<p><img src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/mozart-at-pianoforte-200.jpg" alt="Young Mozart at the Piano by E.S.M (MozartiniShop.com)" align="left" width="120" />There is a skill called sight-reading. Sight-reading is the act of playing a piece of music through without having practiced it beforehand. We usually sight-read a piece when considering whether to learn it or when it is first assigned to us by an instructor. Some people continue to sight-read a piece indefinitely without ever resorting to the other skill: practicing. Practicing is to study a piece of music and usually by dividing it into sections to be repeated as many times as necessary until mastery of the whole is achieved by mastery of the parts. Sometimes these small sections are divided and studied in even smaller sections.</p>
<p>My definition of practicing might be called “boring” by those who like the immediate pleasure of playing and hearing an entire piece at once, and to play and hear it again and again just the same with probably a few slight improvements. That is entertainment, not practice.</p>
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<p>By an unfortunate accident in the course of history, the word “Discipline” has been alloted a rather negative connotation and made synonymous with words like “Arduous” and associated with doing things that are “Not Fun”. Discipline is also presumed to require long periods to time, but time we have known to be relative since 1916 (thanks to a famous publication by the other Einstein). Therefore it should come as no surprise that a short duration of disciplined practice is rewarded by the “Instant Gratification” of noticeable improvement.</p>
<p>The above is a roundabout way of stating at the risk of my credibility that <font size="1">disciplined practice with attention to detail is really very fun</font>, a fact possessing little chance of persuasion but which we must all discover for ourselves. This statement applies to the art of practicing slowly, addressed in the previous essay, as well as the art of practicing a piece in sections which will be briefly introduced here.</p>
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<p>How small a section to isolate depends upon the difficulty and style of the music being studied and also upon the philosophy and particularity of one&#8217;s music instructor. Accomplishing one phrase at a time is a common way which naturally leads to combining several accomplished phrases and repeating that larger section for some time. Be aware, however, that certain sections smaller than a phrase—as small as 1 measure or even 2-3 notes—will benefit from being practiced alone for several minutes or several hours. Instances of very few notes requiring prolonged attention may be for reasons such as: unusual fingerings, notes separated by wide intervals, complex rhythms, ornaments, etc. Passages that the student hopes to play very fast should also receive many hours of undivided attention in which practicing slowly is included.</p>
<p>The key to such total concentration without suffering is to simplify the student&#8217;s view of the objective. If one&#8217;s goal is to learn an entire piece, playing only one section of it repeatedly will appear slow and frustrating. When sitting down the young student for piano practice, make it very clear that the objective of the day is to learn this measure or that phrase and nothing else. It does not even matter when the piece will be finished or even if it will be finished. Enforce a slow tempo that will guarantee the student&#8217;s success and create satisfaction. Encourage the relatively easy memorization of these sections so that the pianist may have the benefit of watching the hands while working on technique. The truth is that, in spite of the appearance of discipline, repetition is untaxing on the mind and almost comfortably lazy. Properly done, it is very enjoyable for the student to see how rapidly he or she improves. There is greater delight in playing a phrase excellently than in struggling through an entire piece. Once begun to practice, one might not want to stop.</p>
<p>Having practiced sections of a piece in this manner, should your child make a mistake or suffer memory loss in the middle of performance, he or she can easily begin at the start of one of these sections and be spared the uncomfortable experience of sitting silently before an audience. There is also the advantage of memorizing the piece as it is learned in minute sections as memorization of the entire piece appears daunting to some and is often faced with lack of confidence and reluctance. Practicing in sections can also be used solely for memorization.</p>
<p>The secret ,which is not a secret, is to isolate the objective. However small a musical goal, it should be a complete goal and well achieved. The popular saying concerning forests and trees can usually be reversed concerning music.</p>
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		<title>&#8220;Shopaholic&#8221; Books: Entertaining Lessons on Financial &#8220;Don&#8217;ts&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2008 10:30:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Penelope Pince</dc:creator>
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Not all our book recommendations are about finance and frugality (in fact most of them won&#8217;t be), but we thought this a good time and a good series kick off our book recommendations. The Shopaholic books by Sophie Kinsella and published by Random House are among my favorite light reading matter, and I have actually [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0440241413?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=ourfouwor-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0440241413"><img src="/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/shopaholic.jpg" alt="Confessions of a Shopaholic by Sophie Kinsella (Random House)" class="alignleft" border="0" /></a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=ourfouwor-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0440241413" style="border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important" border="0" height="1" width="1" />Not all our book recommendations are about finance and frugality (in fact most of them won&#8217;t be), but we thought this a good time and a good series kick off our book recommendations. The <em>Shopaholic</em> books by Sophie Kinsella and published by Random House are among my favorite light reading matter, and I have actually read most of this series twice.</p>
<p>The protagonist of the series, Becky Bloomwood, is a London financial journalist who writes for a magazine called <em>Successful Savings</em> and gives financial advice to hundreds of people, but she is completely clueless when it comes to her own personal finances. This is due to the fact that she is also a shopaholic who can&#8217;t resist a store, sale or anything that can (and sometimes can&#8217;t) be bought with money, and as a result, at the beginning of the first book <em>Confessions of a Shopaholic, </em>suddenly realizes that she is £6,000 in debt.</p>
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<p>So she embarks on a mission to get out of debt, but being her incorrigible self, seems to find herself in deeper trouble with each attempt be it cutting back or making more money, getting deeper in debt, and all the while dodging her bank manager and many creditors.</p>
<p>While Becky Bloomwood is not a heroine after which we should all model ourselves, she is definitely a great example of financial &#8220;don&#8217;ts&#8221;. She always finds a way to convince herself when spending money that she is actually <em>saving money</em> or <em>making an investment </em>(even when the item in question is a pair of strappy clementine sandals).</p>
<p>She is so incorrigible that at times I actually get annoyed with her, wondering just what the heck she is thinking &#8230; (well, we do know what she is thinking, because the whole story is told from her point of view) &#8230; but she is also so hopelessly optimistic in all her harebrained endeavors that you sort of can&#8217;t help laughing and liking her. I found the 4th book of the series <em>Shopahoic &amp; Sister</em> especially funny as spendthrift Becky meets (and clashes) with her very prudent and frugal sister.</p>
<p>All in all, it is a very entertaining (and financially educational) read.</p>
<p>This series consists of the following and in the order listed (the last is a gift set of the first 3 novels):</p>
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		<title>My Favorite Money and Time Saving Websites</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 14:36:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Penelope Pince</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Next to the TV, DVD, flushing toilet, hot shower, computer and properly working automatic garage door, the internet is one of the best inventions ever. In fact, living in the desert as I do, I couldn&#8217;t get along without the internet. Even with the rising cost of internet service, the number of things it allows [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft alignnone size-full wp-image-233" style="margin: 5px; float: left;" title="Ethernet Cable Image by Petr Kratochvil" src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/ethernetcable-150.jpg" alt="Ethernet Cable Image by Petr Kratochvil" width="150" height="150" />Next to the TV, DVD, flushing toilet, hot shower, computer and <a title="Expensive Lessons: Knowing When to Call it Quits and Call in a Professional, and the Price of Spinelessness and Regret" href="http://pecuniarities.com/expensive-lessons-knowing-when-to-call-it-quits-and-call-in-a-professional-and-the-price-of-spinelessness-and-regret/222" target="_self">properly working automatic garage door</a>, the internet is one of the best inventions ever. In fact, living in the desert as I do, I couldn&#8217;t get along without the internet. Even with the rising cost of internet service, the number of things it allows me to do makes it totally worth the cost and actually helps me to save money. Here I will share <span style="text-decoration: underline;">over 30 links</span> to my favorite websites that provide free products or services. I will also include my favorite shopping sites for saving money. (Note: All links open in a new window.)</p>
<h3>Productivity</h3>
<ul>
<li>Check out one of my earlier posts <strong><a title="Save Hundreds with Open Source Software" href="http://pecuniarities.com/save-hundreds-with-open-source-software/35" target="_self">Save Hundreds with Open Source Software</a></strong> for a list of open source applications with short descriptions of their functions and links to the websites for free downloads. These are not free trials but completely free programs that stay free and upgrade for free.</li>
<li><strong><a title="Google Calendar" href="http://www.google.com/calendar" target="_blank">Google Calendar</a></strong> is a handy online calendar that can send alerts to you by email or pop-up reminders. The program allows you to share your calendar with friends and family who also use Google Calendar so you can coordinate schedules with each other.</li>
</ul>
<h3>Computer Protection</h3>
<ul>
<li><span id="productTitleText"><strong><a title="Zone Alarm Free Firewall" href="http://www.zonealarm.com/store/content/catalog/products/sku_list_za.jsp" target="_blank">ZoneAlarm Free Firewall</a></strong> can filter all traffic in and out of your computer. The most secure setting will warn you of even legitimate access to the internet and of every attempt by a program installed on your computer to access the internet to check for updates, etc.</span></li>
<li><span class="toptitle" style="line-height: 20px;"><strong><a title="Zone Alarm Spy Blocker Toolbar" href="http://www.zonealarm.com/store/content/company/spyblocker/download.jsp?c=P100014" target="_blank">ZoneAlarm<span class="tm" style="font-size: 10px;"> </span>Spy Blocker Toolbar</a></strong> protects you from spyware while surfing the net.</span></li>
<li><span class="toptitle" style="line-height: 20px;"><strong><a title="McAfee Site Advisor" href="http://www.siteadvisor.com/" target="_blank">McAfee SiteAdvisor</a></strong> warns you of bad sites and has profiles for each tested site with details on downloads, spam email count, and user reviews. It also shows the safety rating for web search results with a small icon next to each link: green for safe, red for unsafe, yellow for caution, and gray for untested (you can submit a test request for gray sites).<br />
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Deals-Computers/b/?ie=UTF8&amp;node=759498&amp;tag=ourfouwor-20 "><img class="aligncenter" title="Computer Deals at Amazon" src="http://g-ecx.images-amazon.com/images/G/01/associates/2009/banners/ce-it-todays-deals-tcg._V243625602_.png" alt="" width="480" /></a></p>
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<h3>Communication</h3>
<ul>
<li><a title="Skype" href="http://www.skype.com" target="_blank"><strong>Skype</strong></a> allows you to make free computer to computer video and voice calls, and calls to phones for a small charge. We use the free computer to computer calls to talk to our overseas relatives</li>
<li>If you use Hotmail, you can also use <a title="Windows Live Messenger" href="http://messenger.msn.com" target="_blank"><strong>Windows Live Messenger</strong></a> for voice and video chat sessions with your contacts. You can also send mobile text messages to contacts in your address book.</li>
<li><a title="Gmail Email" href="http://www.gmail.com" target="_blank"><strong>Gmail</strong></a> is my favorite free web based email program because, not only does it give you ever increasing storage (6.76 GBs as of this writing and counting), but it lets you forward your email to a desktop email client such as Outlook or <strong><a title="Thunderbird Email" href="http://www.mozilla.com/en-US/thunderbird/" target="_blank">Thunderbird</a></strong>. If you access your mail online, it has a nice filtering tool to help you sort your mail and also has a built in chat program, Google Talk, that allows you to chat with your online contacts without having to download anything.</li>
</ul>
<h3>Entertainment</h3>
<ul>
<li><a title="Hulu" href="http://www.hulu.com" target="_blank"><strong>Hulu</strong></a> has an ever growing collection of new and old television programs and movies which you can watch for free online with a very reasonable amount of advertisements. The commercial breaks are shorter than you would have to sit through (15 or 30 secs) when watching a show on TV. For some newer shows, only the last 5 or 6 episodes are available, but there are also full seasons and full series of episodes for some shows.</li>
<li>Network channels all have websites that let you watch the last 5 or 6 episodes of their current shows online. Here is a list of links to the home pages:
<ul>
<li><strong><a title="NBC Watch Full Episodes Online Free" href="http://www.nbc.com" target="_blank">NBC</a></strong></li>
<li><strong><a title="ABC Watch Full Length Episodes Online Free" href="http://abc.go.com/" target="_blank">ABC</a></strong></li>
<li><strong><a title="FOX Watch Full Length Episodes Online Free" href="http://fox.com/fod/index.php" target="_blank">FOX</a></strong></li>
<li><strong><a title="ABC Family Channel Watch Free Full Length Episodes Online" href="http://abcfamily.go.com/abcfamily/path/section_Videos/page_Video" target="_blank">ABC Family</a></strong></li>
<li><strong><a title="Sci Fi Channel Watch Full Length Episodes Online Free" href="http://www.scifi.com/rewind/" target="_blank">Sci Fi</a></strong></li>
</ul>
</li>
<li><strong><a title="SHOUTcast Free Internet Radio" href="http://shoutcast.com/" target="_blank">SHOUTcast</a></strong> is a free internet radio site that has a large selection of genres and stations and good sound quality.</li>
<li><strong><a title="Joost" href="http://www.joost.com/" target="_blank">Joost</a></strong> is a player that allows you to watch thousands of TV shows and movies on your computer.</li>
</ul>
<h3>Reference</h3>
<ul>
<li><strong><a title="Wikipedia the free encyclopedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Main_Page" target="_blank">Wikipedia</a></strong>. If you&#8217;ve performed a web search on the net, you&#8217;ve probably already stumbled across Wikipedia, which is a free, open encyclopedia that anyone can edit. It may or may not be 100% accurate, but it is convenient and has a great collection of articles and images on just about any topic, person or place including cities, actors and operas. Wikipedia is available in <a title="English Wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Main_Page" target="_blank">English</a>, <a title="French Wikipedia" href="http://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Accueil" target="_blank">French</a>, <a title="Spanish Wikipedia" href="http://es.wikipedia.org/wiki/Portada" target="_blank">Spanish</a>, <a title="German Wikipedia" href="http://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hauptseite" target="_self">German</a>, <a title="Japanese Wikipedia" href="http://ja.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E3%83%A1%E3%82%A4%E3%83%B3%E3%83%9A%E3%83%BC%E3%82%B8" target="_blank">Japanese</a>, <a title="Polish Wikipedia" href="http://pl.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strona_g%C5%82%C3%B3wna" target="_blank">Polish</a>, <a title="Russian Wikipedia" href="http://ru.wikipedia.org/wiki/%D0%97%D0%B0%D0%B3%D0%BB%D0%B0%D0%B2%D0%BD%D0%B0%D1%8F_%D1%81%D1%82%D1%80%D0%B0%D0%BD%D0%B8%D1%86%D0%B0" target="_blank">Russian</a>, <a title="Portuguese Wikipedia" href="http://pt.wikipedia.org/wiki/P%C3%A1gina_principal" target="_blank">Portuguese</a>, <a title="Dutch Wikipedia" href="http://nl.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hoofdpagina" target="_blank">Dutch</a> and <a title="Italian Wikipedia" href="http://it.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pagina_principale" target="_self">Italian</a>. (<strong>Time Saving Tip:</strong> To search for something straight from your Google toolbar or search, just type the keyword and the word &#8220;wiki&#8221;, i.e. &#8220;horse wiki&#8221; and the link to the entry will most likely show up first in your search result.)</li>
<li><strong><a title="High Beam Encyclopedia" href="http://www.encyclopedia.com/ency4beta_default.aspx" target="_blank">High Beam Encyclopedia</a></strong> is a collation of articles from Britannica, Oxford University Press, Columbia Encyclopedia as well as other published newspaper and magazine articles.</li>
<li><strong><a title="Google Translate" href="http://translate.google.com/translate_t" target="_blank">Google Translate</a></strong> provides fair (though not the greatest) translations for 23 languages. It can translate typed/pasted in sections or entire webpages. This allows you to make use of websites you otherwise might not understand or save you time where you already know the language but take longer to read. It also has a <strong><a title="Google Translate Dictionary for 23 Languages" href="http://translate.google.com/translate_dict?hl=en" target="_blank">dictionary</a></strong> for looking up words from those 23 languages.</li>
<li><strong><a title="Reference.com" href="http://www.reference.com" target="_blank">Reference.com</a></strong> has links to a host of reference tools including atlases, almanacs, a dictionary, thesaurus, literature and more. (<strong>Time Saving Tip: </strong>To look up a definition of a word, for example, &#8220;antithesis&#8221;, type &#8220;definition antithesis&#8221; in your search window. To look up synonyms (thesaurus) of the word &#8220;simile&#8221;, type &#8220;synonym simile&#8221;, and the search results will link you to the page of the entry.)</li>
<li><strong><a title="The Gutenberg Project" href="http://www.gutenberg.org/wiki/Main_Page" target="_blank">The Gutenberg Project</a></strong> is a digital library of works that have fallen into public domain through expired copyright. The library includes fiction and non-fiction literature, audiobooks, sheet music and more.</li>
<li><strong><a title="Google Calculator" href="http://www.google.com/help/calculator.html" target="_blank">Google Calculator</a></strong> is a handy tool that lets you type in a formula or question in your search window and it will calculate and show you the answer. For example: type &#8220;1+5&#8243; in your search bar and it will give you &#8220;1 + 5 = 6&#8243;. It can multiply, divide, add, subtract as well as calculate units of measurement such as miles, kilometers, megabytes, grams, degrees, pi, currency exchange rates and much more. Check out this great <a title="Learn to Use Google Calulator" href="http://googleindiablog.blogspot.com/2006/02/google-calculator-demo.html" target="_blank">Google  Calculator Demo</a> at the Learn Google Search blog.</li>
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<h3>Free Downloads</h3>
<ul>
<li><a title="Download.com Free Safe Trusted Downloads" href="http://www.download.com" target="_blank"><strong>Download.com</strong></a> has a large collection of safe, free and trusted software downloads with editor and user reviews.</li>
<li><strong><a title="Softpedia free software download" href="http://softpedia.com/" target="_blank">Softpedia</a></strong> also has a large collection of downloads.</li>
<li><strong><a title="Mozilla" href="http://www.mozilla.org/projects/" target="_blank">Mozilla</a></strong>, home of the Firefox browser has a large number of great open source software including web browsers, html editors, email and calendar programs. Be sure to also check out the list of <strong><a title="Mozailla-Based Applications" href="http://www.mozilla.org/projects/mozilla-based.html" target="_blank">Mozilla-Based Applications</a></strong> which include other interesting and useful programs.</li>
<li><strong><a title="Firefox Extensions" href="https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/" target="_blank">Firefox Browser Add-ons</a></strong>: If there is a function you wish your Firefox browser could perform, chances are someone has already had the same thought and created an add-on for it.</li>
<li> <a title="Google Pack" href="http://pack.google.com/intl/en/pack_installer.html" target="_blank">Google Pack</a> includes the following (you can select which items you want):
<ul>
<li><strong>Google Earth</strong>: a map program that lets you look at satellite, terrain and street level images. Includes driving directions and businesses</li>
<li><strong>Norton Security Scan</strong> for viruses</li>
<li><strong>Google Desktop</strong> to help organize your files, pictures and web history</li>
<li><strong>Mozilla Firefox Browser with Google Toolbar</strong></li>
<li><strong>Adobe Reader</strong></li>
<li><strong>Skype</strong></li>
<li><strong>Star Office</strong> word processing, spread sheet, presentation and other office programs</li>
<li><strong>Google Toolbar for Internet Explorer</strong> (helps block pop-ups)</li>
<li><strong>Spyware Doctor</strong> (starter edition)</li>
<li><strong>Picasa</strong> for editing and organizing your photos</li>
<li><strong>Google Photos Screensaver</strong> to create slideshows with your photos</li>
<li><strong>Google Talk</strong> for chatting online or by voice and sharing files</li>
<li><strong>Real Player</strong> for playing media and transferring music to iPods or other players</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<h3>Shopping</h3>
<ul>
<li><strong><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2F&amp;tag=ourfouwor-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325">Amazon.com</a></strong><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=ourfouwor-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> is our favorite shopping site for almost everything we can&#8217;t get at our local grocery and drug stores. The Free Super Saver Shipping for orders over $25 allows you to spend your money on things rather than shipping charges. We also have the Chase Amazon Visa Card that gives us 3 points for every dollar spent at Amazon.com and 1 point everywhere else, and a $25 gift certificate when we reach 2,500 points.</li>
<li>We occasionally shop at <a href="http://linksynergy.overstock.com/fs-bin/click?id=tvOcDDlc/iY&amp;offerid=139179.10000001&amp;type=3&amp;subid=0" target="new"><strong>Overstock.com</strong></a><img src="http://ad.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/show?id=tvOcDDlc/iY&amp;bids=139179.10000001&amp;type=3&amp;subid=0" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> when the price is considerably less than can be had from Amazon. In our experience, their service is just as good, if not better, than Amazon&#8217;s due to the online customer service chat and faster shipping time, because Amazon&#8217;s free shipping takes an additional 4-5 business days before leaving their warehouse. They offer flat $2.95 shipping on all orders, and cheaper media shipping for 1 or 2 media item (books, music and DVDs).</li>
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<li><a title="The Frugal Literate's Guide to Affordable Reading" href="http://pecuniarities.com/the-frugal-literates-guide-to-affordable-reading/161" target="_self"><strong>The Frugal Literate&#8217;s Guide to Affordable Reading</strong></a></li>
<li><strong><a title="Public Domain Music: Music You Already Own" href="http://pecuniarities.com/public-domain-music-music-you-already-own/97" target="_self">Public Domain Music: Music You Already Own</a><br />
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		<title>Poorest Time of Our Lives</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 13:24:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Penelope Pince</dc:creator>
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The topic for this month&#8217;s PF Bloggers Group Writing Project, &#8220;Poorest Time of Your Life&#8221; which was decided about 5 months ago, comes at a somewhat inopportune time. When our group picked out these topics, whoever it was that suggested this topic must have thought that we must all be in a position where the [...]]]></description>
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<p>The topic for this month&#8217;s PF Bloggers Group Writing Project, &#8220;Poorest Time of Your Life&#8221; which was decided about 5 months ago, comes at a somewhat inopportune time. When our group picked out these topics, whoever it was that suggested this topic must have thought that we must all be in a position where the poorest time of our lives were in the past and could serve as an inspirational story of financial achievement.</p>
<p>But with the recent and current economic developments (or should I say, deterioration?) and the rate of inflation, I really can&#8217;t say if the poorest times of our lives really are past. At first thought, I just assumed that the poorest time of my life was past, but upon further contemplation, <strong>I am beginning to question if NOW might not be the poorest time of my life</strong>.</p>
<p>When I sat down to write this essay, I had planned on writing about two brief periods in Madoline&#8217;s and my past when were quite poor. They were transition periods in our lives, however, which really didn&#8217;t last very long and probably didn&#8217;t really count as being poor.<span id="more-1691"></span></p>
<h2>Poor Period 1</h2>
<p>The first was right after Madoline graduated from college which coincided with the ending of my first job, which was a 9-month contract position. We had had a falling out with our stepfather who, as trustee of our mother&#8217;s estate, was in possession of the income she had left us. For more about this, please refer to our <a title="Our Family Financial History" href="http://pecuniarities.com/our-family-financial-history/307" target="_self">Family Financial History</a>.</p>
<p>While our rent was still being paid by our mother&#8217;s money, we had little left from my earnings and were living in a town where employment opportunities were scarce. For about a month, we made a little money here and there teaching piano lessons and singing at weddings of acquaintances, after which we managed to secure 2 out of 5 full-time positions that opened up at a new company in town.</p>
<h2>Poor Period 2</h2>
<p>The second poor period was after we quit that job and moved to California. We had saved up $10,000 after working 11 months and had also managed (with the help of an attorney) to persuade our stepfather to turn our mother&#8217;s income over to us as she had intended. While the monthly income wasn&#8217;t a lot, it was enough to pay the rent and some bills on a small place, and we felt the need to leave Hawaii and start afresh.</p>
<p>We spent $800 on 2 one-way airfares; $225 on airfare for our dog, cat and 22 mice ($75 per ticket &#8211; the mice counted as &#8220;one&#8221;); found a place to live for $650/mo. in Hayward, CA; and figured we had enough to cover the movers and sustain us for at least a couple of months while we looked for jobs.</p>
<p>But we underestimated the costs of the move which was based on the weight of items moved. Because we didn&#8217;t have a parents&#8217; house where we could leave things, we had to take everything that had meaning to us, such as a an antique desk of our mother&#8217;s, our piano and mementos of childhood. We had no idea how much everything weighed and assumed it wouldn&#8217;t be more than 1,000 lbs., so we had estimated about $1,200, but when the movers&#8217; invoice arrived in California stating a total of almost $3,500, I knew we were in trouble.</p>
<p>After the initial costs of moving in, buying necessities for our new place, putting a down payment on our car (<a title="Lessons Learned from our First (Auto) Loan" href="http://pecuniarities.com/learning-from-our-mistakes-our-first-auto-loan/1176" target="_self">read about that catastrophe here</a>) we had just about $3,500 left for the movers. Our monthly inheritance income check had been delayed due to mail forwarding, and for a few weeks, we literally had no money in the bank. I have a memory of one night when we rummaged through all our pockets and purses for change. We gathered about $10 with which we then went to the grocery store to buy food.</p>
<p>We began job hunting as soon as we got a car, and took the first jobs offered to us at Togo&#8217;s Eatery (a sandwich shop similar to Subway). When we got our first paycheck, around $100, we took it to the bank and deposited it. The clerk told us the balance would be available immediately, so we went grocery shopping and put it on the debit card. We found out later that the clerk had misinformed us and that we had gotten an overdraft because it turned out the balance wasn&#8217;t immediately available after all.</p>
<p>But this only lasted a few weeks. Our mother&#8217;s income check eventually arrived and continued to arrive each month. After our scare of being poor, we saved like crazy. We continued working at Togo&#8217;s for the time being and got hired on to manage a new pizza restaurant that our boss opened a couple of months later.</p>
<p>So things were hairy for a while, but that brief brush with near poverty was an invaluable lesson and catalyst for our desire to live frugally.</p>
<h2>Is Now the Poorest Time of Our Lives?</h2>
<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1697" style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 10px;" title="Downward Graph by Penelope Pince" src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/down-graph-150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="144" /></p>
<p>I am beginning to wonder if the present might not be the poorest time of our lives. While we still have money in the bank, I can&#8217;t but wonder how long it will last if this recession and rate of inflation keeps up. Our monthly grocery bill is almost double what it used to be (we only have one supermarket within 40 miles, which may mean higher rate of inflation). The cost of propane has increased at least 150% since we moved in 3 years ago. The list goes on. But our total income continues to decrease &#8211; both from our business, which was very promising and the reason we bought the house, and our inherited income.</p>
<p>While we are OK for now as far as having money for groceries, the mortgage and bills, I can&#8217;t help but worry that we&#8217;ll run out in a few months. It is truly scary because this is much more permanent than our previous &#8220;poor periods&#8221; which were nothing in comparison. We didn&#8217;t have mortgages back then. We were living in areas where we could find employment. We are again living in an area where employment opportunities are scarce to none, even when the economy is good. But this time we can&#8217;t move because we have a mortgage which we can&#8217;t refinance now or sell the house in this current market as our property&#8217;s market value has decreased by 40%.</p>
<p>Maybe I&#8217;m just being paranoid and worrying for nothing &#8211; I usually am. But what if I&#8217;m not?</p>
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<p><a title="Personal Finance Bloggers Network" href="http://pfbloggers.com/" target="_blank"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-308" style="border-width: 0px;" title="PF Bloggers Group Writing Project" src="../wp-content/uploads/2008/07/pfbloggers-group-writing-30.gif" alt="PF Bloggers Group Writing Project" width="200" /></a></p>
<p><strong>About the PF Bloggers Group Writing Project</strong></p>
<p>The Personal Finance Bloggers Network currently consists of 7 active personal finance and frugal living blogs. The Group Writing Project is a monthly project wherein each blog will write a post on a pre-determined topic and publish it on the same day of each month. Be sure to visit the<a title="PF Bloggers" href="http://pfbloggers.com/group-writing-project/trackback" target="_blank">PF Bloggers Group Writing Project</a>page for the others!</p>
<p><strong>Extended Group Writing Project Invitation</strong></p>
<p>If you are a blogger, we would like to invite you to write your own post on this topic and submit it for listing with our entries on our <a title="PF Bloggers Group Writing Projects" href="http://pfbloggers.com/group-writing-project" target="_blank">Group Writing Project</a> pages. Please visit the following page for details on how to participate in our <a title="PF Bloggers Extended Group Writing Project" href="http://pfbloggers.com/extended-group-writing-project" target="_blank">Extended Group Writing Project</a></p>
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		<title>Under the Weather &#8211; Recommended Reading</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 12:55:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Penelope Pince</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Apologies for not posting anything of substance yesterday or today, but due to feeling a little under the weather these few days, I thought I would post a summary of recommended reading for those of you who are new to this blog, and a few news items from the personal finance blogosphere.
From Our Fourpence Worth

Father&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Apologies for not posting anything of substance yesterday or today, but due to feeling a little under the weather these few days, I thought I would post a summary of recommended reading for those of you who are new to this blog, and a few news items from the personal finance blogosphere.</p>
<h3><strong>From Our Fourpence Worth</strong></h3>
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<li><strong>Father&#8217;s Day</strong><br />
If you&#8217;re still looking for a Father&#8217;s Day present, many of our ideas from <a title="Frugal but Thoughtful Mother's and Father's Day Gift Suggestions" href="http://pecuniarities.com/frugal-but-thoughtful-mothers-day-gift-suggestions/205" target="_self">Frugal but Thoughtful Mother&#8217;s Day Gift Suggestions</a> could also apply to fathers and father-figures in your life.</li>
<li><strong>Tax Rebate</strong><a title="Permanent Link to Don’t Spend that Tax Rebate Just Yet" rel="bookmark" href="../dont-spend-that-tax-rebate-just-yet/96"><br />
</a>If you are truly interested in helping the US economy, check out <a title="Permanent Link to Don’t Spend that Tax Rebate Just Yet" rel="bookmark" href="../dont-spend-that-tax-rebate-just-yet/96">Don’t Spend that Tax Rebate Just Yet</a> for a few suggestions on how to and how <em>not</em> to spend your tax rebate based on an article by Liz Pulliam Weston of MSN Money.</li>
<li><strong>Motivating Children to Practice Music</strong><br />
<a title="Mozartini Shop: Gifts and collectibles featuring original artwork by Madoline Hatter" href="http://www.cafepress.com/mozartini/4463126" target="_self"><img class="alignright" style="margin: 5px; float: right;" src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/mozart-at-pianoforte-200.jpg" alt="Young Mozart at the Piano Image by Madoline Hatter" /></a> Take advantage of summer vacation to help your kids get ahead on their music practice and get the most out of your music lesson fees with some advice by Madoline, who majored in music and has had experience in teaching children&#8217;s piano lessons.</p>
<ul>
<li><a title="Motivating Children to Practice Music Part 2: Playing the Piano is a Privilege - Not a Chore" href="http://pecuniarities.com/playing-the-piano-is-a-privilege-not-a-chore/22" target="_self">Motivating Children to Practice Music: Introduction</a></li>
<li><a title="Motivating Children to Practice Music Part 2: Playing the Piano is a Privilege - Not a Chore" href="http://pecuniarities.com/playing-the-piano-is-a-privilege-not-a-chore/22" target="_self">Part 2: Playing the Piano is a Privilege (Not a Chore)</a></li>
<li><a title="Motivating Children to Practice Music Part 3: Playing Slower for Faster Results" href="http://pecuniarities.com/motivating-children-to-practice-music-part-3/21" target="_self">Part 3: Playing Slower for Faster Results</a></li>
<li><a title="Motivating Children to Practice Music Part 4: Divide and Conquer" href="http://pecuniarities.com/motivating-children-to-practice-music-part-4/67" target="_self">Part 4: Divide and Conquer</a></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="font-size: xx-small;">(If you like the image to the right, which is an original illustration by my sister Madoline, check out our CafePress store <a title="Mozartini Shop: Gifts and Collectibles featuring original artwork by Madoline Hatter" href="http://mozartinishop.com" target="_self">Mozartini</a> for gifts and collectibles featuring this image and other artwork by the same hand.)</span></li>
<li><strong>Editor&#8217;s Picks</strong><br />
We&#8217;re starting to get the hang of blogging (which was completely new to us when we started this blog in February), and have produced a few Editor&#8217;s Picks in recent blog carnivals:</p>
<ul>
<li><a title="The Frugal Literate's Guide to Affordable Reading" href="http://pecuniarities.com/the-frugal-literates-guide-to-affordable-reading/161" target="_self">The Frugal Literate&#8217;s Guide to Affordable Reading</a></li>
<li><a title="Frugal but Thoughtful Mother's Day Gift Suggestions" href="http://pecuniarities.com/frugal-but-thoughtful-mothers-day-gift-suggestions/205" target="_self">Frugal but Thoughtful Mother’s Day Gift Suggestions</a></li>
<li><a title="My Favorite Money and Time Saving Websites" href="http://pecuniarities.com/my-favorite-money-and-time-saving-websites/232" target="_self">My Favorite Money and Time Saving Websites</a></li>
<li><a title="Guide to Safe and Smart Traveling with Pets" href="http://pecuniarities.com/guide-to-safe-and-smart-traveling-with-pets/236" target="_self">Guide to Safe and Smart Traveling with Pets</a></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;"><a title="Lottery Tickets: Worthy Investment or Waste of Money?" href="http://pecuniarities.com/lottery-tickets-worthy-investment-or-waste-of-money/246" target="_self">Lottery Tickets: Worthy Investment or Waste of Money?</a></span></li>
<li><a title="Simple Solutions to Staying Out of Debt" href="http://pecuniarities.com/simple-solutions-to-staying-out-of-debt/241" target="_self">Simple Solutions to Staying Out of Debt</a></li>
</ul>
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</ul>
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<h3><strong>News from the Personal Finance Blogosphere</strong></h3>
<ul>
<li><strong>Personal Finance Buzz</strong><br />
Check out <a title="PF Buzz Personal Finance Blog Articles" href="http://www.pfbuzz.com" target="_blank">PF Buzz</a> for lots of great personal finance articles and vote for your favorite ones &#8212; hint hint &#8212; my profile.   <img src='http://pecuniarities.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </li>
<li><strong>Finance Fiesta</strong><br />
Last Thursday (June 5th) saw the <a title="First Edition of Finance Fiesta Blog Carnival" href="http://masteryourcard.com/blog/2008/06/05/welcome-to-the-first-finance-fiesta/trackback" target="_blank">first edition of the Finance Fiesta blog carnival hosted at Master Your Card</a>. This week (today), the Fiesta is being hosted at <a title="Wide Open Wallet" href="http://wideopenwallet.com" target="_blank">Wide Open Wallet</a> and will be hosted by yours truly next Thursday. If you have a finance or frugality related article, be sure to <a title="Submit to Fiance Fiesta Blog Carnival" href="http://blogcarnival.com/bc/submit_4311.html" target="_blank">submit it</a> by Wednesday June 18th 5:00PM EDT to be considered for inclusion in the 3rd Edition of the <a title="Finance Fiesta Blog Carnival" href="http://financefiesta.com/" target="_blank">Finance Fiesta</a>!</li>
<li><strong>Summer Savings Series</strong><br />
Money Life Network is running a <a title="Summer Savings Series at Money Life Network" href="http://moneylifenetwork.com/2008/06/06/summersavingsseries-win-a-100-amazon-gift-card/trackback" target="_blank">Summer Savings Series</a> over the course of 3 weeks with tips including but not limited to:</p>
<ul>
<li>Ways to save on travel</li>
<li> Frugal activities for the kids</li>
<li> Ways to save on your auto expenses</li>
<li> Ways to save on groceries</li>
<li> How to get motivated to save</li>
</ul>
<p>Be sure to also check out my last article <a title="Frugal, Fun and Productive Summer Activities" href="http://pecuniarities.com/frugal-fun-and-productive-summer-activities/253" target="_self">Frugal, Fun and Productive Summer Activities</a> for some ideas for keeping cool, busy and fit this summer.</li>
</ul>
<p>I promise to return soon with more scintillating material. <img src='http://pecuniarities.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Thanks for reading!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[For the lucky few who have extra leisure time this summer, I thought I&#8217;d put together some suggestions for productive and fun activities that will help enhance your personal, academic and/or professional life. Some of these suggestions are addressed as if to young people (students, adolescents, etc.) but can also apply to grown-ups.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-254" style="margin: 5px; float: left;" title="Dandelion Photo by Petr Kratochvil PublicDomainPictures.net" src="http://pecuniarities.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/dandelion.jpg" alt="Dandelion Photo by Petr Kratochvil PublicDomainPictures.net" height="100" />For the lucky few who have extra leisure time this summer, I thought I&#8217;d put together some suggestions for productive and fun activities that will help enhance your personal, academic and/or professional life. Some of these suggestions are addressed as if to young people (students, adolescents, etc.) but can also apply to grown-ups.</p>
<p>My suggestions are divided into the following subsections:</p>
<ul>
<li><a title="Summer Hobbies" href="http://pecuniarities.com/frugal-fun-and-productive-summer-activities/253#hobbies">Summer Hobbies</a> &#8211; activities with lasting benefits and meaning<a title="Summer Hobbies" href="http://pecuniarities.com/frugal-fun-and-productive-summer-activities/253#hobbies"><br />
</a></li>
<li><a title="Summer Studies" href="http://pecuniarities.com/frugal-fun-and-productive-summer-activities/253#studies">Summer Studies</a> &#8211; develop skills that will be useful in life<a title="Summer Studies" href="http://pecuniarities.com/frugal-fun-and-productive-summer-activities/253#studies"><br />
</a></li>
<li><a title="Summer To-Do's" href="http://pecuniarities.com/frugal-fun-and-productive-summer-activities/253#tasks">Summer To-Do&#8217;s</a> &#8211; a few ways to get your life or home in order<a title="Summer To-Do's" href="http://pecuniarities.com/frugal-fun-and-productive-summer-activities/253#tasks"><br />
</a></li>
<li><a title="Summer Fitness" href="http://pecuniarities.com/frugal-fun-and-productive-summer-activities/253#fitness">Summer Fitness</a> &#8211; ways to keep cool and stay fit<a title="Summer Fitness" href="http://pecuniarities.com/frugal-fun-and-productive-summer-activities/253#fitness"><br />
</a></li>
<li><a title="Summer Pet Bonding" href="http://pecuniarities.com/frugal-fun-and-productive-summer-activities/253#pets">Summer Pet Bonding</a> &#8211; make your pet happy and you healthy</li>
</ul>
<h3>Summer Hobbies</h3>
<p>Here are some ideas for catching up on tasks that may have been neglected during the year.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Write in your journal</strong><br />
Write about your past year, what&#8217;s on your mind, who and what you like and dislike, your daydreams, anything. In future years you will be glad you did it and also amused by your younger self. You think you will always remember what happened when, but as time goes by, memories do fade and become forgotten. (Trust me, I&#8217;m speaking from experience and I&#8217;m not yet 30 and have a memory better than most.)</li>
<li><strong>Make a family video</strong><br />
Go around the house and take a video of your family going about its regular business. You will be glad for the memories one day.</li>
<li><strong>Scrapbook</strong><br />
Organize family photos, report cards, birthday cards, artwork, concert programs and other keepsakes from the past year into a scrapbook.</li>
<li><strong>Reading</strong><br />
Reading (even fun fiction) can help improve your mind, vocabulary, grammar and writing skills. If you go to the library, you can read in an air-conditioned environment without having to pay for the air-conditioning or the books.</li>
</ul>
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<h3>Summer Studies</h3>
<p>Yes, summer should be fun, but there&#8217;s no reason it can&#8217;t be both fun and productive.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Learn a new language<br />
</strong>The benefits of learning languages are endless. Learning a new language can help you to:</p>
<ul>
<li>Get ahead in your career</li>
<li>Make new friends from different parts of the world. When you show an interest in someone&#8217;s language or culture, they are often appreciative and take an interest in you in return.</li>
<li>Improve your English (or first language)</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li><strong>Learn to play a musical instrument</strong><br />
Music enhances the mind in many ways. Studies have shown that children who study music at an early age do better in school than those who don&#8217;t. Aside from that, it is also just plain fun.</li>
<li><strong>Learn to sew</strong><br />
Sewing is a very useful skill to have regardless of your gender. You can learn to mend clothes, make your own clothes and other things for your house, which can save you a lot of money. Older and more skilled children can even make their own clothes for the coming school year. Check out one of our earlier articles for more info: <a title="Save Money by Sewing Your Own Clothes" href="http://pecuniarities.com/save-money-by-sewing-your-own-clothes/101" target="_self">Save Money by Sewing Your Own Clothes</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Take a computer class</strong><br />
Learn to type properly, use a spreadsheet or database, design websites, make presentations, etc. Most jobs these days involve computer use, so knowing as much as you can about computers might help you get a higher salary.</li>
</ul>
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<h3>Summer To-Do&#8217;s</h3>
<p>A few suggestions for improving life at home and getting ahead on the coming year.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Get a head start on your Christmas shopping</strong><br />
This could save you time and money because you can shop at your leisure and take advantage of summer sales. Leaving your shopping to the last minute usually costs more because you are up against a deadline and usually have fewer options.</li>
<li><strong>Sort through your stuff</strong><br />
Go through your clothes and things and prune out those you no longer want or need. You could donate the things you no longer need or hold a garage or yard sale and make some money to put into your college or retirement savings.</li>
<li><strong>Re-arrange your room or home</strong><br />
Re-arranging your room or home can have a positive impact on your life. A change can be uplifting and produce an overall feeling of well-being and accomplishment, renew your energy and increase productivity.</li>
<li><strong>Clean out your computer</strong><br />
Ideally you would do this several times a year, but if you use the internet and download a lot of things, it&#8217;s a good idea to clean out your computer on a regular basis. If there are programs you don&#8217;t use, uninstall them. If there are files that you no longer need, delete them. Clean your registry if you&#8217;ve had the computer for a while. Keeping your hard drive from getting too full will extend its life.</li>
</ul>
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<h3>Summer Fitness</h3>
<p>A few suggestions for staying cool and healthy this summer.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Mall Walking<br />
</strong>Walking in an indoor, air-conditioned mall is a great way to get exercise away from the heat and smog, and you can also save on sunscreen. You can even window-shop during your walks, but if you think you might get too tempted, <em>leave your money and credit card at home</em>.</li>
<li><strong>Swimming in an indoor pool<br />
</strong>Swimming is another low-impact exercise (safer than running) which increases endurance, muscle and cardiovascular strength. Try to swim in an indoor pool whenever possible or wait until early evening to avoid sunburn.</li>
<li><strong>Ice Skating</strong><br />
Not only does it let you get away from the heat, but it&#8217;s a good low-impact and aerobic exercise which will help strengthen your bones and cardiovascular system. Taking some lessons and learning to skate properly can be worth the money.</li>
</ul>
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<h3>Summer Pet Bonding</h3>
<p>If you have a pet, spend some quality time together. Not only will you make your pet very happy, he/she will help make you healthier. (<a title="How Pets Help People" onclick="urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&amp;post=253&amp;message=1&amp;_wp_original_http_referer=http%3A%2F%2Fourfourpenceworth.com%2Fwp-admin%2Fedit.php');urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&amp;post=253&amp;message=1&amp;_wp_original_http_referer=http%3A%2F%2Fourfourpenceworth.com%2Fwp-admin%2Fedit.php');urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&amp;post=253');urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/edit.php');urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/post-new.php?posted=253');urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&amp;post=253&amp;message=4');urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&amp;post=253&amp;message=4');urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&amp;post=253&amp;message=4');urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&amp;post=253&amp;message=4');urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&amp;post=253&amp;message=4');urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&amp;post=253&amp;message=4');urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&amp;post=253&amp;message=4');urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&amp;post=253&amp;message=4');urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&amp;post=253&amp;message=4');urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/?referer=http://pecuniarities.com/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&amp;post=253&amp;message=4');" href="http://www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/how_pets_help_people/" target="_blank">How Pets Help People</a>)</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Take your dog to obedience school</strong><br />
Obedience school is good for socializing and teaching discipline. There is nothing wrong with repeating obedience school for fun and refreshing both your memories.</li>
<li><strong>Teach your dog new tricks</strong><br />
There are lots of fun tricks you can teach your dog: beg, spin (in both directions), roll, speak, catch a ball or frisbee, etc. You can also teach your dog to be helpful around the house: closing the door or brining you something you dropped. Dogs enjoy feeling helpful and learning new things can keep mature dogs&#8217; minds sharp.</li>
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If going hiking, be sure to take another person along, bring lots of water and plastic bags, and make sure your dog&#8217;s feet are protected from rough terrain. For your dog&#8217;s and other hikers&#8217; safety, never let him off-leash on a hiking trail.</li>
<li><strong>Enter your dog in a 4th of July costume contest</strong><br />
Make a fun costume for your dog and enter a costume contest or parade. 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<p>Well, I hope some of these suggestions prove helpful in making your summer both fun and productive. <em>Vas-y t&#8217;amuser!</em></p>
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		<title>Resisting the Urge to Splurge</title>
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		<dc:creator>Penelope Pince</dc:creator>
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I received the following comment today from a reader about my earlier post Simple Solutions to Staying Out of Debt:
&#8220;All good advice &#8211; sadly, it is harder than it sounds. But then again, the more you make the more you can spend, so figuring out how to live within your means is a lesson we [...]]]></description>
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<p>I received the following <a title="Comment on Simple Solutions to Staying Out of Debt" href="http://pecuniarities.com/simple-solutions-to-staying-out-of-debt/241#comment-687" target="_self">comment</a> today from a reader about my earlier post <a title="Simple Solutions to Staying Out of Debt" href="http://pecuniarities.com/simple-solutions-to-staying-out-of-debt/241" target="_self">Simple Solutions to Staying Out of Debt</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;All good advice &#8211; sadly, it is harder than it sounds. But then again, the more you make the more you can spend, so figuring out how to live within your means is a lesson we should all learn at an early age!&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Yes, it is harder than it sounds; almost everything is. But what it all boils down to is common sense, self-discipline and keeping your priorities in mind. It is true that it would be ideal to learn such lessons at an early age, but there is no reason why an adult can&#8217;t learn to control his spending and live within his means if he truly wants to.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong. I am human and I know how hard it can be to resist spending on things you want. For example, here is just a snippet of some of the things I have been coveting for a long time &#8211; some for years.</p>
<ul>
<li>A laptop computer</li>
<li>My favorite TV shows on DVD (Friends, X-Files and many more)</li>
<li>Subscription to cable (which we haven&#8217;t had since 2001)</li>
<li>A cushy armchair for reading in my bedroom</li>
<li>The complete British and French editions of the Harry Potter books (I collect foreign editions of Harry Potter books)</li>
</ul>
<p>These are just a few of the things that cross my mind at the moment, but I know there are more. Over the years, I have been tempted more than once to buy some or all of these things, but I know the danger of giving in to the urge to splurge, because spending or <strong>getting what you want is addictive</strong>. Oftentimes, when you get one thing, you want or need to get more things to go with it.</p>
<p>I know it&#8217;s annoying to hear these words because they&#8217;re so &#8220;self-help-ish&#8221; (I myself can&#8217;t stand self-helpers and trite inspirational &#8220;don&#8217;t underestimate the power of the mind&#8221; stuff), but -</p>
<h3><strong>The tools for fighting the urge to spend are:</strong></h3>
<ul>
<li>Recognizing your priorities</li>
<li>Rational thinking (<span style="text-decoration: underline;">not</span> rationalizing)</li>
<li>Self-discipline/self-control</li>
<li>Will power</li>
<li>Rewarding yourself</li>
</ul>
<h3>Recognizing Your Priorities</h3>
<p>For most of us, our main goal is simply to &#8220;save money&#8221; or &#8220;save as much money as possible,&#8221; and that works well enough. But maybe for some of us, that goal simply isn&#8217;t enough. If you have a strong penchant for spending, you may need more clearcut reasons than &#8220;to save money&#8221; in order to curb your spending. So you will need to contemplate the following question.</p>
<p><strong>Why do you want or need to save money</strong>?</p>
<p>Is it &#8230;</p>
<ul>
<li>To save for a down payment on a house of your own?</li>
<li>To save for a replacement car?</li>
<li>To save for marriage and a family?</li>
<li>To save for a personal or family emergency?</li>
<li>To stay out of debt?</li>
<li>To get out of debt?</li>
<li>To achieve financial freedom?</li>
<li>To make sure your loved ones are provided for?</li>
<li>To make sure you have enough to live on should you lose your job?</li>
<li>To be able to retire when you want or need to?</li>
<li>To make sure you have enough to last through your retirement?</li>
</ul>
<p>Knowing and reminding yourself of your priorities at all times will help make achieving your goals easier.</p>
<h3><strong>Rational Thinking</strong></h3>
<p>Rational thought is necessary in order to succeed at anything including spending and saving money. When tempted to spend on something you don&#8217;t need or can&#8217;t really afford -</p>
<p><strong>Try to look at the item in question with objectivity</strong> (without emotion) and ask yourself the following questions (The &#8220;it&#8221; in the following questions can apply to any kind of expenditure. Buying a tangible item, a service, eating out, etc.):</p>
<ul>
<li>Do you really need it?</li>
<li>If yes, why do you need it?</li>
<li>Are your reasons for needing it valid?</li>
<li>Can you really afford it?</li>
<li>What do you already have that can be used instead?</li>
<li>What will its value be 6 months down the road? 1 year? 5 years?</li>
<li>If it is a tangible item will you still be using it?</li>
<li>If it is an intangible or transient item, is it really worth spending money on it that you would otherwise never see again?</li>
</ul>
<p>Also consider:</p>
<ul>
<li>The potential value of the money saved from not spending it and saving or investing it. Use the savings calculator on <a title="Prune Your Spending and Watch the Savings Grow" rel="bookmark" href="http://pecuniarities.com/prune-your-spending-and-watch-the-savings-grow/71" target="_self">Prune Your Spending and Watch the Savings Grow</a> to see how much a little money saved over time can become.</li>
<li>If you really think you have enough money saved for your future or financial goals.</li>
</ul>
<h3><strong>Self-Discipline/Self-Control<br />
</strong></h3>
<p>No one likes hearing about discipline. It implies strictness, lack of freedom, and unpleasant tasks. But without self-discipline, one can never achieve success or financial freedom. So when confronted with a tempting expenditure:</p>
<ul>
<li> <strong>Plan A: Walk Away</strong><br />
The best way to exercise your self-discipline when confronted with temptation is to simply walk away &#8211; or close the browser window (and clear your browsing history and cache to make it harder to accidentally happen on it again.)</li>
<li><strong>Plan B: If you can&#8217;t walk away, then wait.</strong><br />
If you have a hard time walking away from the temptation, then at least wait. Convince yourself that you are not flat-out denying yourself what you want, but rather waiting for a sale or a price reduction. You will often find that by the time the price has decreased, so has your desire for the item.</p>
<p>If it turns out you do still want the item, at least you will be spending less on it. Also, by delaying your expenditure, you can earn a little more interest on the money to be spent.</li>
</ul>
<h3><strong></strong><strong>Will Power</strong></h3>
<p>You will find that as you practice self-discipline, your will power will grow. There will come a time when you can see something you really like and simply be able to admire it and move on without a struggle.</p>
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<h3>Rewarding Yourself</h3>
<p>Living a life devoid of treats and denying yourself everything you want is not living. So it is alright to reward yourself on occasion. Only you can decide how often and how much you should treat yourself to, but here are a few suggestions for how to figure out what works for you.</p>
<p>Start by setting a goal for yourself. It is important to make it a reasonable goal. Goals can be measured in time, amount of money, achievement or any other way that suits your lifestyle. When you achieve your goal, reward yourself with a little treat <em>within reason</em>.</p>
<p><strong>Setting a goal</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Time<br />
</strong>Set a timeframe in which you decide you will not make unnecessary expenditures. If you have a regular habit of spending money everyday or every few days, you might want to start with a shorter goal and work your way up to the ideal timeframe.</li>
<li><strong>Amount of money saved</strong><br />
Instead of putting all your money in your checking account, open a savings account (if you don&#8217;t already have one.) Put all your non-regular-expense money (anything not for necessities such as rent, bills, groceries, gas, etc.) into this savings account. When you have saved up to a certain pre-determined amount &#8211; $500, $1,000, etc. &#8211; then you can allow yourself a little treat.</li>
<li><strong>Achievement</strong><br />
This could be for achievement in any area of your life &#8211; career, personal, weight-loss, etc.</li>
</ul>
<p>As time passes and you achieve your goals you might find the success of achieving your goals to be more rewarding than spending money. In an ideal world, that would probably be enough. But for most of us human beings, it probably isn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>So remember, it is important to treat yourself once in a while. It doesn&#8217;t have to be a big treat. It could be as little as an ice cream cone, a reasonable item of clothing, a new CD, etc. But if you find yourself treating yourself every other day, something is wrong. I can&#8217;t tell you exactly how long and how much your goals should be. It is different for everyone and something you need to figure out for yourself. That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s called <em>personal</em> finance.</p>
<p>In closing, I will share</p>
<h3>How I rational thought my way out of the items on my wish list (mentioned above)</h3>
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<li><span style="color: #6699cc;"><strong>A laptop computer</strong></span><br />
<em><span style="color: #d87093;">Reason I don&#8217;t need it:</span></em> I already have a desktop computer.</li>
<li><strong><span style="color: #6699cc;">My favorite TV shows on DVD</span></strong><br />
<em><span style="color: #d87093;">Reason I don&#8217;t need it:<strong> </strong></span></em>For now, I can watch what DVDs I have and TV shows online. I know I&#8217;ll eventually get them, but what&#8217;s the hurry?</li>
<li><span style="color: #6699cc;"><strong>Subscription to cable</strong></span><br />
<em><span style="color: #d87093;">Reason I don&#8217;t need it:</span></em> An occasional DVD purchase is cheaper than subscribing to cable and I&#8217;ll end up with an asset instead of just putting money down the drain.</li>
<li><span style="color: #6699cc;"><strong>A cushy armchair for reading in my room</strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #d87093;"><em>Reason I don&#8217;t need it:</em></span> I can read on my bed. Someday I will get an armchair when the time is right and when I can afford a nice one.</li>
<li><strong><span style="color: #6699cc;">The complete British and French editions of the Harry Potter books</span></strong><br />
<em><span style="color: #d87093;">Reason I don&#8217;t need it:</span></em> The fun of book collecting is acquiring each edition book by book over time. If I got all the books at one time, I&#8217;d need to find a new hobby.</li>
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<h3>Treating Myself</h3>
<p>On the other hand, I did treat myself to a rather expensive gift last fall. I have been a musician since I was 5 years old, and have wanted to learn to play the violin since I was a teenager. Last fall, I purchased myself a Suzuki Student Violin for $170. Being more expensive than most of our regular purchases, I considered it a late birthday/early Christmas/early next birthday present for myself. My violin is and will be one of my most favored possessions for a long time to come.</p>
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		<title>Interesting Reads From Fellow Personal Finance Bloggers #19</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 13:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Penelope Pince</dc:creator>
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Wow, I am really behind this week. Apologies to Pecuniary Associates members and carnival hosts for being 3 days late with this week&#8217;s roundup. I&#8217;m still sort of recovering from my taxing tax experience last week &#8211; mostly by letting myself be a little lazy this week. Well, this will be a short one this [...]]]></description>
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Wow, I am really behind this week. Apologies to Pecuniary Associates members and carnival hosts for being 3 days late with this week&#8217;s roundup. I&#8217;m still sort of recovering from <a title="Lessons learned this tax seasons, procrastination can lead to financial death" href="http://pecuniarities.com/lessons-learned-this-tax-season-procrastination-may-be-leading-cause-of-financial-death/3932">my taxing tax experience</a> last week &#8211; mostly by letting myself be a little lazy this week. Well, this will be a short one this week because I&#8217;m still in the vacationing mood, but I promise I will be back soon with a couple of new posts I&#8217;ve been planning and incubating in my head for a while now.</p>
<h2>From Pecuniary Associates</h2>
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<li><strong>Living Well On Less</strong> gives us:  <a title="Frugality is Good for the Earth" href="http://livingwellonless.com/2009/04/22/frugality-is-good-for-the-earth/" target="_blank">Frugality is good for the Earth</a></li>
<li><strong>Financial Nut</strong> offers <a title="A Comprehensive Guide To Understanding The Pros &amp; Cons Of Investing Into A Roth IRA" href="http://www.financialnut.com/roth_ira_vs_traditional_ira/">A Comprehensive Guide To Understanding The Pros &amp; Cons Of Investing Into A Roth IRA</a>, one of the many things I&#8217;ve been meaning to look into.</li>
<li><strong>Greener Pastures</strong> asks <a title="Permanent Link to Should I Refinance? Obama Says Yes." href="http://greenerpastures.responsiblepersonalfinance.com/2009/04/10/should-i-refinance-obama-says-yes/">Should I Refinance? Obama Says Yes</a>.</li>
<li><strong>Counting My Pennies </strong>talks about <a title="Permanent Link: Keeping Money Matters Quiet" href="http://www.countingmypennies.com/2009/04/14/keeping-money-matters-quiet/">Keeping Money Matters Quiet</a>, to which I completely agree.</li>
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<h2>Blog Carnivals</h2>
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<p class="entry-title"><strong>At Money Ning: </strong><a title="Carnival of Personal Finance #200" href="http://moneyning.com/misc/carnival-of-personal-finance-200-edition-of-mini-accomplishments/" target="_blank">Carnival of Personal Finance #200 &#8211; Edition of Mini Accomplishments</a><a title="Carnival of Personal Finance #200" href="http://moneyning.com/misc/carnival-of-personal-finance-200-edition-of-mini-accomplishments/" target="_blank"><br />
</a>Post included: <a href="http://pecuniarities.com/slowing-down-makes-sense-drive-safely-save-more-than-money/3608">Slowing Down Makes Sense: Drive Safely, Save More Than Money</a></p>
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<p class="entry-title"><strong>At </strong><strong>Mighty Bargain Hunter:</strong> <a title="Welcome to the Carnival of Personal Finance" href="http://www.mightybargainhunter.com/2009/04/20/welcome-to-the-carnival-of-personal-finance/" target="_blank">Welcome to the Carnival of Personal Finance</a> <a title="Welcome to the Carnival of Personal Finance" href="http://www.mightybargainhunter.com/2009/04/20/welcome-to-the-carnival-of-personal-finance/" target="_blank"><br />
</a>Post included: <a title="Welcome to the Carnival of Personal Finance" href="http://www.mightybargainhunter.com/2009/04/20/welcome-to-the-carnival-of-personal-finance/" target="_blank"></a><a href="http://pecuniarities.com/falling-off-your-financial-horse-if-youve-never-fallen-off-a-horse-you-just-havent-ridden-enough/3820">Falling Off Your Financial Horse: If  you’ve never fallen off a horse, you just haven’t ridden enough</a>.</p>
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<li><strong>At Wise Bread:</strong> <a title="Carnival of Pecuniary Delights No. 2" href="http://www.wisebread.com/carnival-of-pecuniary-delights-no-2-saving-money-edition" target="_blank">Carnival of Pecuniary Delights No. 2: Saving Money Edition<br />
</a>Post included: <a href="http://pecuniarities.com/honestly-frugal-the-ethics-of-saving-money/144/" target="_blank">Honestly Frugal: the Ethics of Saving Money</a>.</li>
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<hr /><h2>Related posts:</h2><ul><li><a href="http://pecuniarities.com/interesting-reads-from-fellow-personal-finance-bloggers/102" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link: Interesting Reads from Fellow Personal Finance Bloggers">Interesting Reads from Fellow Personal Finance Bloggers</a></li><li><a href="http://pecuniarities.com/interesting-reads-from-fellow-personal-finance-bloggers-12/1739" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link: Interesting Reads From Fellow Personal Finance Bloggers #12">Interesting Reads From Fellow Personal Finance Bloggers #12</a></li><li><a href="http://pecuniarities.com/interesting-reads-from-fellow-personal-finance-bloggers-2/177" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link: Interesting Reads from Fellow Personal Finance Bloggers #2">Interesting Reads from Fellow Personal Finance Bloggers #2</a></li><li><a href="http://pecuniarities.com/interesting-reads-from-fellow-personal-finance-bloggers-3/214" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link: Interesting Reads from Fellow Personal Finance Bloggers #3">Interesting Reads from Fellow Personal Finance Bloggers #3</a></li><li><a href="http://pecuniarities.com/early-to-bed-and-early-to-rise-makes-a-man-or-woman-healthy-wealthy-and-wise/256" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link: Early to Bed and Early to Rise Makes a Man [or Woman] Healthy, Wealthy and Wise">Early to Bed and Early to Rise Makes a Man [or Woman] Healthy, Wealthy and Wise</a></li></ul><hr /><small>Copyright &copy; 2008<br /> The use of this feed on any website other than <a href="http://pecuniarities.com">http://pecuniarities.com</a> breaches copyright. If this content is not in your news reader, it makes the page you are viewing an infringement of the copyright. (Digital Fingerprint:<br />  (38.107.191.113) )</small>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Carnival of Debt Reduction No. 185: The Charles Dickens Debtor&#8217;s Prison Edition</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to <a title="Carnival of Debt Reduction" href="http://carnivalofdebtreduction.com" target="_blank">Carnival of Debt Reduction</a> No. 185, The Charles Dickens Debtor&#8217;s Prison Edition. While the main purpose of this carnival is to share articles on getting out of debt, you will also find items on money management in general &#8211; budgeting, saving, investing and the economy.</p>
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<td style="text-align:left;"><strong>Bloggers</strong>, I am hosting the first edition of the <a title="Carnival of Pecuniary Delights" href="http://carnivalofpecuniarydelights.pecuniarities.com/">Carnival of Pecuniary Delights</a>, a brand new personal finance, frugal and green living blog carnival, this Thursday April 2, 2009.</p>
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<h2>About Debtor&#8217;s Prisons</h2>
<p>In the time of Charles Dickens, men were arrested for debt and imprisoned until they could repay what they owed. This was sometimes achieved by the help of family members, but as not everyone had that advantage, the system was somewhat nonsensical especially because living within the prisons required the spending of money with virtually no opportunity to earn it.</p>
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<td style="text-align:right;font-family:Palatino Linotype,Georgia,serif;font-size:14px;font-style:italic;">&#8220;Pray remember ye poor debtors.&#8221;</td>
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<h2>Editor&#8217;s Picks</h2>
<p><strong>I Pick Up Pennies</strong> presents <a href="http://ipickuppennies.blogspot.com/2009/03/are-we-too-optimistic.html">Are we too optimistic?</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Passive Family Income</strong> presents <a href="http://www.passivefamilyincome.com/2009/03/16/recession-in-america-gardening/">Recession in America &#8211; Gardening</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Five Cent Nickel</strong> presents <a href="http://www.fivecentnickel.com/2009/03/20/debt-reduction-vs-retirement-savings/">Debt Reduction vs. Retirement Savings</a>.</p>
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<td style="text-align:left;font-family:Palatino Linotype,Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;">The poor side of a debtor&#8217;s prison is, as its name imports, that in which the most miserable and abject class of debtors are confined.  A prisoner having declared upon the poor side, pays neither rent nor chummage.  His fees, upon entering and leaving the jail, are reduced in amount, and he becomes entitled to a share of some small quantities of food: to provide which, a few charitable persons have, from time to time, left trifling legacies in their wills.</p>
<p>Most of our readers will remember, that, until within a very few years past, there was a kind of iron cage in the wall of the Fleet Prison, within which was posted some man of hungry looks, who, from time to time, rattled a money-box, and exclaimed in a mournful voice, &#8216;Pray, remember the poor debtors; pray remember the poor debtors.&#8217;  The receipts of this box, when there were any, were divided among the poor prisoners; and the men on the poor side relieved each other in this degrading office.</td>
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<h2>Personal Stories</h2>
<p><strong>Debt Kid</strong> presents <a href="http://www.debtkid.com/going-from-broke-to-blessed">Going from Broke to Blessed</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Bible Money Matters</strong> presents <a href="http://www.biblemoneymatters.com/2009/03/dont-let-unexpected-stress-be-an-excuse-for-spending.html">Don’t Let Unexpected Stress Be An Excuse For Spending</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Man Vs. Debt</strong> presents <a href="http://manvsdebt.com/my-debt-recon-and-current-battle-plans/">My Debt-Recon And Current Battle Plans</a>.</p>
<p><strong>My Money Minute</strong> presents <a href="http://mymoneyminute.com/personal-finance/027-dont-laugh-its-paid-for/">Don&#8217;t Laugh, It&#8217;s Paid For!</a>.</p>
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<td style="text-align:left;font-family:Palatino Linotype,Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;">As we got more and more into debt, breakfast became a hollower and hollower form.</td>
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<h2>Daily Saving &amp; Budgeting</h2>
<p><strong>PF Credit Cards</strong> presents <a href="http://pfcreditcards.com/lower-your-monthly-subscriptions-cost-by-calling/">Lower Your Monthly Subscriptions Cost by Calling</a>.</p>
<p><strong>American Consumer News</strong> presents <a href="http://www.americanconsumernews.com/2009/03/what-a-difference-control-makes.html">What a Difference Control Makes</a>.</p>
<p><strong>The Smarter Wallet</strong> presents <a href="http://thesmarterwallet.com/2009/money-saving-ideas-create-a-frugal-household-budget/">Money Saving Ideas To Create A Frugal Household Budget</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Greener Pastures</strong> presents <a href="http://greenerpastures.responsiblepersonalfinance.com/2009/03/17/its-epa-fix-a-leak-week/">It&#8217;s EPA Fix a Leak Week</a>.</p>
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<td style="text-align:left;font-family:Palatino Linotype,Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;">Mr. Micawber, about this time, composed a petition to<br />
the House of Commons, praying for an alteration in the law of imprisonment for debt.</td>
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<td style="text-align:right;font-family:Palatino Linotype,Georgia,serif;font-size:14px;font-style:italic;">David Copperfield</td>
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<h2>Money Management</h2>
<p><strong>My Dollar Plan</strong> presents <a href="http://www.mydollarplan.com/would-you-take-a-loan-modification/">Would You Take a Loan Modification?</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Automatic Finances</strong> presents <a href="http://www.automaticfinances.com/bank-fees/">3 Bank Fees You Should Never Have to Pay</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Free Money Finance</strong> presents <a href="http://www.freemoneyfinance.com/2009/03/review-your-credit-card-bill.html">Review Your Credit Card Bill</a>.</p>
<p><strong>No Credit Needed</strong> presents <a href="http://www.ncnblog.com/2009/03/23/beware-the-dangers-of-the-abuse-of-credit/">Beware The Dangers Of The Abuse Of Credit</a>.</p>
<p><strong>The Sun&#8217;s Financial Diary</strong> presents <a href="http://www.thesunsfinancialdiary.com/personal-finance/pin-signature-based-debit-transactions/">PIN vs. Signature Based Debit Transactions</a>.</p>
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<td style="text-align:left;font-family:Palatino Linotype,Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;">&#8220;Miss Summerson,&#8221; said Richard hurriedly, &#8220;I am glad you are come. You will be able to advise us.  Our friend Mr. Skimpole—don&#8217;t be alarmed!—is arrested for debt.&#8221;</td>
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<h2>Investing</h2>
<p><strong>Investing School</strong> presents <a href="http://investing-school.com/definition/realized-and-unrealized-gains-and-losses/">Realized and Unrealized Gains and Losses</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Prime Time Money</strong> presents <a href="http://ptmoney.com/2009/03/23/5-reasons-not-to-borrow-from-your-401k/">5 Reasons Not to Borrow from Your 401k</a>.</p>
<p><strong>My Retirement Blog</strong> presents <a href="http://www.myretirementblog.com/earning-20000-equals-half-million-dollar-nest-egg.html">Earning $20,000 Equals Half Million Dollar Nest Egg</a>.</p>
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<td style="text-align:left;font-family:Palatino Linotype,Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;">&#8220;I have nothing to say to you,&#8221; rejoins Mr. Tulkinghorn.  &#8220;If you get into debt, you must pay your debts or take the consequences.&#8221;</td>
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<td style="text-align:right;font-family:Palatino Linotype,Georgia,serif;font-size:14px;font-style:italic;">Bleak House</td>
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<h2>Gurus &amp; Books</h2>
<p><strong>The Paycheck Chronicles</strong> presents <a href="http://paycheck-chronicles.military.com/2009/03/a-dollar-saved-is-two-dollars-earned.html">A Dollar Saved is Two Dollars Earned</a>.</p>
<p><strong>The Digerati Life</strong> presents <a href="http://www.thedigeratilife.com/blog/index.php/2009/03/09/dave-ramsey-baby-steps-to-financial-success/">Dave Ramsey’s Baby Steps To Financial Success</a>.</p>
<p><strong>The Dough Roller</strong> presents <a href="http://www.doughroller.net/book-reviews/debt-cures-kevin-trudeau/">Debt Cures by Kevin Trudeau–Do his “secrets” really work?</a>.</p>
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<td style="text-align:left;font-family:Palatino Linotype,Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;">&#8220;What is a fellow to do for money, and where am I to look for it, if not to my sister?&#8221;</td>
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<h2>Making Money</h2>
<p><strong>Counting My Pennies</strong> presents <a href="http://www.countingmypennies.com/2009/03/24/sell-your-gold-and-get-rich/">Sell your gold and get rich!</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Destroy Debt</strong> presents <a href="http://www.destroydebt.com/blogs/debbie/930-the-part-time-job-method-of-increasing-your-income.html">The Part Time Job Method of Increasing Your Income</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Miss Thrifty</strong> presents <a href="http://www.miss-thrifty.co.uk/2009/03/24/making-money-from-your-house-in-2012/">Making Money From Your House in 2012</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Studenomics</strong> presents <a href="http://studenomics.com/entrepreneurship/successful-business-venture-checklist/">Successful Business Venture Checklist</a>.</p>
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<td style="text-align:left;font-family:Palatino Linotype,Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;">&#8220;Pray, sir,&#8221; said Arthur, repeating his question, &#8220;what is this place?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Ay! This place?&#8221; returned the old man, staying his pinch of snuff on its road, and pointing at the place without looking at it. &#8220;This is the Marshalsea, sir.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;The debtors&#8217; prison?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Sir,&#8221; said the old man, with the air of deeming it not quite necessary to insist upon that designation, &#8220;the debtors&#8217; prison.&#8221;</p>
<p>He turned himself about, and went on.</p>
<p>&#8220;I beg your pardon,&#8221; said Arthur, stopping him once more, &#8220;but will you allow me to ask you another question? Can any one go in here?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Any one can go IN,&#8221; replied the old man; plainly adding by the significance of his emphasis, &#8216;but it is not every one who can go out.&#8221;</td>
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<h2>Miscellany</h2>
<p><strong>Clever Dude</strong> presents <a href="http://www.cleverdude.com/content/is-hip-hop-teaching-americans-money-lessons/">Is Hip-Hop Teaching Americans Money Lessons?</a>.</p>
<p><strong>J. Money</strong> presents <a href="http://www.budgetsaresexy.com/2009/03/our-church-is-125k-in-debtand-guess.html">Our church is $125k in debt&#8230;and guess what?</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Christian Debt Help</strong> presents <a href="http://www.christianpf.com/peter-schiff-economy-video/">Video of Peter Schiff predicting the crisis and getting mocked!</a>.</p>
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