Remembering Why We Do What We Do

Luwi with Remote

My dog Luwi (“loo-vee” short for Ludwig) loves movies. Ever since he was a puppy, he has been fascinated with the television, especially scenes with animals or action. He would jump up on the TV and lick or bite the screen when he saw something exciting. Naturally, he was equally if not more captivated by the remote control, the all-powerful apparatus that could switch the wonderful television on and off.

Over time, however, Luwi became more and more fascinated with the remote control, to the point of obsession. While he still loves the TV and watches it, his focus has shifted more to the remote control. When we mention any of the words “TV,” “movie,” “watch,” “DVD,” and anything else related to the activity in question, he runs to the remote control and stares at it with a mad gleam in his eye.

Whenever we pick up any of the remote controls, he jumps up in “ready position” and doesn’t take his eyes off the remote till we put it back down, and he continues to stare at it until he’s sure we’re finished with it. If and when he can, he steals the remote control to hold or guard on his spot on the bed. He still watches the TV, but I believe his enjoyment of it is less than it used to be because he is now obsessed with getting the remote control rather than watching TV.

Luwi is a good example of how we, people and animals, can forget the original reasons why we do certain things. Many of us are concerned with saving money becuase we want to be able to live comfortably or happily without the stress of being in debt. But we can sometimes get too caught up in the act of saving money and forget our original reasons for doing so. If you ever find yourself spending hours and hours looking for a better deal rather than spending that time doing something more productive or enjoying time with your family just to save a few dollars, you have forgotten.

The same goes for making money. In the beginning, many people want to make money so that they can provide a comfortable life for their families. Over time they sometimes forget and get caught up in making money, become workaholics, and instead of spending a weekend afternoon playing with their kids or pets, they’re locked away in the office working (or blogging ;)) and shouting at the kids or pets to keep it down.

I am not saying it’s bad to want to make or save money. Just don’t let it consume you the way the remote control has consumed Luwi. An activity he used to enjoy has turned into a vigil rather than a hobby. He is now more concerned with the state of the remote control than what is actually happening on the screen and has completely forgotten the point of it all.

Luwi with Remote

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6 thoughts on “Remembering Why We Do What We Do”

  1. As misguided as Luwi might be, he is also completely adorable. (Although I’m surprised the remote actually works after it’s been guarded so moistly, lol.)

  2. lol Thanks, it is hard to scold him when he is being so adorable. Our old TV recently died and we decided to let him have the remote (the one in the picture), which made him REALLY happy. We have to take the remotes from the working TV and DVD player for the moistness reason. :D

  3. Oh my gosh, I love your dog! Is he a border collie?

    I think you make a lot of really great points in this post. A lot of times we get so caught up in something that we forget why we started. Other times, we get so caught up in the big stuff that we forget to sweat the small stuff, as I just read about in The Power of Small. I know I started really being frugal to keep myself from going into credit card debt and your post was a great reminder!

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